Golden Globes Fashion Wrap--Part 1

Ladies, yes, it is that time again. I look forward to this each and every year.....my own version of Fashion Police!!! Here I go and give you some of my favorite, and last favorite, gowns on the Red Carpet. Now, I do not endorse the award shows in their entirety (dealing with Ricky Gervais's crass behavior is not something I would encourage others to sit through), but I do love predicting the winners.

Now, I do not agree with Hollywood's standards. I wish some people would be more covered up than they are....but that doesn't mean I cannot love a strapless gown when I see one. I might now where a thigh high slit, but sometimes a dress with one does look palatable. After years of condemnation for these posts, I'm not apologizing anymore. I believe in modesty; I put it into practice myself. But I do not always expect it in Hollywood. There is my disclaimer. Now are you ready to jump right in?

Because I found so many looks I wanted to share with you, I am doing this in a divided post. Today, I am giving my top five favorite dresses =)

#1 for me is Jessica Alba. I saw this dress on the red carpet and my jaw hit the floor. She just had a baby six months ago?! She looks stunning--simply stunning. The pale purple looks gorgeous on her skin tone. Those appliques are actually butterflies or so someone reported...aren't they lovely? Her hair and makeup is absolutely flawless; I wish mine often looked like that. Suffice it to say, I cannot find one single thing wrong with this look. I dare you to try ;-)

#2 is the pairing of George Clooney and his current date, Stacy Keibler. George is a good looking guy, I'm just saying it now. I find him extremely attractive, though my mother does not for some really crazy reason. Stacy, on this occasion, looks amazing. That red dress is classy and yet subtly sexy. It shows off her figure and yet, it is pretty modest as well. Her hair and makeup look great as well. Again, I cannot find a single thing wrong with this look. I could see myself wearing this dress.

#3 is Emma Stone. I have been paying attention to this actress's style for months. Ever since her promo tour for "The Help," she has made some amazing wardrobe choices, ones that are often classy and modest. This one is as well--although the neckline does plunge a little two much for my taste. The eggplant color looks gorgeous with her red hair (which I have had highlighted in my hair thanks to her ;-) and that eagle belt, well, it's a quirk that is entirely Emma. I find this dress fun. Again, hair and makeup are flawless for me.

#4 is Angelina Jolie. I'm going to be honest with you. I can hardly believe that she is on my list. Normally, Angelina is far too black and monochromatic for my taste. But I was wowed by her pale pink and red dress. It oozed with a classic Hollywood vibe that I always enjoy seeing. The red lip just adds to that feeling. That being said, I am not a fan of her hair. Austere buns = not my thing.

#5 is Octavia Spenser (AKA Minnie from "The Help). Now this is how a woman with curves dresses!!!! I have a friend who went nuts, absolutely nuts, over this gown. Octavia looks amazing. The pale purple worked for his skin tone much like it did for Jessica. The dress hit her in all the right places. The clutch, the jewels.....she just looks confident and full of poise. I was so glad that she won Best Supporting Actress.

So, there you have it--my top 5. I will be back with more of these later in the week. But in the meantime, if you have seen gowns that you liked....I want to hear all about your choices!! Perhaps they will be on my second list ;-)

BONES--Season 6

At some point in time, a TV show has to switch gears and give the audience a new angle to explore. BONES, heading into its sixth season, was considered by some to be growing stagnant and unoriginal. Hart Hanson, the creator of the FOX drama, decided to throw a few new bones (no pun intended) our way and see if we would bite. Obviously we did.

The allotted year for the Jeffersonian gang to reunite has not yet come to pass. Everyone is off doing their own thing. Dr. Temperance Brennan (Emily Deschanel) is off searching for ancient remains in Indonesia. Seeley Booth (David Boreanaz) is fulfilling his patriotic duty and saving lives and training citizen soldiers in Afghanistan. Hodgins (TJ Thyne) and Angela (Michaela Conlin) are living the good life in Paris, France. All of this means that Camille Saroyan (Tamara Taylor) is left to fend for herself in Washington D.C. She has been unable to make a positive identification of a boy on her autopsy table….and that inability to provide answers could cost Cam her job.

There are bonds that tie this group closely together, so much so that everyone willingly returns to D.C and Cam’s aid. After all, it is collectively where there numerous successes on past cases lie. But not everything is the same; it cannot stay the same. Booth has moved past Bones turning him down and has moved on to Hannah, a war correspondent that he met over in the Middle East. All of the past “Squinterns” have moved on to bigger and brighter opportunities. There is some slight resentment at Dr. Brennan for just “abandoning” what they had and causing upheaval for everyone else. Yet all of that must be pushed to the back burner. There is a missing child out in the world somewhere and an unidentified child in the morgue needing his identity. Personal issues can be talked about at the Diner later—and they definitely will.

Season six is my personal favorite. While the inner characteristics of Dr. Brennan, Booth, and all of the squinterns have adapted and evolved over the course of the show, this season sees them fully coming into their own. The episode, “The Doctor in the Photo,” quickly became one of my top choices this season; in fact, I think it is close to the top when I think about the entire show as a whole. Emily Deschanel does an incredible acting job as Bones comes to realize that she has made a mistake regarding her personal life. Problem is, it appears too late, as we all know that Booth is happily involved with his girlfriend. In years past, Bone’s character would have retreated into a shell after coming up empty, but not in season six. David Boreanaz gets his turn at a superb acting job in “The Daredevil in the Mold.” Viewers could care less about the case the Jeffersonian and the FBI are working; we want to watch Booth’s story unfold and see him where his heart on his sleeve.

However, season six also presented me with my least favorite episode…perhaps ever. “The Maggots in the Meathead” takes place on the Jersey Shore. The content is much like one would expect to see on the actual MTV show. Guidos, girls falling out of bikinis, all of that wonderful stuff. It’s an episode that grates on my nerves and isn’t that compelling when you get right down to it. “The Maggots in the Meathead” involves all of the usual content that we would expect BONES to have. The other major episode with content lies in “The Shallow in the Deep” with a plot centering around cougar cruises. Lance Sweets is seen having a liaison with his girlfriend, Daisy, in this episode as well. Alas, we see Booth and Hannah often in bed together. Sheets are often strewn about, innuendo is often present. Thankfully, middle to end of the season finds the sexual content on the lesser scale. Language is still basic profanities and the dead bodies…..those are still gross.

The season finale is aptly named “A Change in the Game.” I hate to give it away for you, so I won’t. All I can say is that it is an accurate description. It also gave me renewed reason to stay invested in this show. I change the channel when I need to; I enjoy the show when I can. And season 7 is going to be better still.

Yes everyone, I finally finished this. Charity will be getting this review for the website....I promise =D

The Hunger Games--a Book Review

Title: The Hunger Games

Author: Suzanne Collins

Published Date: 2008

My Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars

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Synopsis from Back of Book:


In the ruins of a place once known as North America lies the nation of Panem, a shining Capitol surrounded by twelve outlying districts. Long ago the districts waged war on the Capitol and were defeated. As part of the surrender terms, each district agreed to send one boy and one girl to appear in an annual televised event called, "The Hunger Games," a fight to the death on live TV. Sixteen-year-old Katniss Everdeen, who lives alone with her mother and younger sister, regards it as a death sentence when she is forced to represent her district in the Games. The terrain, rules, and level of audience participation may change but one thing is constant: kill or be killed.

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My Take:
Every once in a while, there comes a time when we read or watch something that we expect one thing and the opposite thing occurs. I must say--that happened to me with The Hunger Games. I only read it because I had about four different people breathing down my neck to read it....it certainly did not even like them, let alone enjoy them...but enjoy it I did. I could hardly put the book down.

It really is a gripping, entertaining story. Though there are enough dystopian elements to make you ponder if such a world would indeed exist. You very quickly get drawn into the plot of Katniss, who is participating in the Hunger Games instead of her sister. You meet Peeta, who is also representing district 12 in the Hunger Games; there is a history between Katniss and Peeta that creates a very interesting dynamic. I read this book on Christmas Eve. IN the midst of making dinner, I was reading as many chapters as I could. I wanted to see how the book unfolded.

It isn't a feel good book. People die, it is as simple as that. It's also slightly violent; some of the "battles" involve strange elements.....but for this Jane Austen girl, I really didn't mind them. I guess The Hunger Games is to Pride and Prejudice as Castle is to Downton Abbey. It is the more "feisty" part in me coming out. =) Did I cry like most people? I teared up, but I never did outright bawl.

Yes, I have gotten on the band wagon. Book 2 is on hold for me at the library and if I had people to go with, I would go see the film when it hits theatres. And should my job do anything in the teen department related to said books, I have already volunteered to assist ;-)

So.....what is y'alls opinion on the latest phenomenon that has hit?

Reading, Watching, and Praising

At the start of every new year, I am faced with the same dilemma. What do I do for a devotional? Do I do the same thing I have done for many years past or do I shake it up with something new? I have an amazing devotional in the forms of Streams in the Desert...but this year, I really felt the Lord leading me to do something different. Or rather, in addition to the said devotional.

As is customary, God used others to reiterate what I believed He was putting on my heart. I was feeling directed towards reading through the Bible in a year....sure enough, when my second family said they were doing the same thing (and asked me to join in with them), I felt as if that was the confirmation I needed.

It's a daunting challenge and one that I have never done before. I mean, I have read books of the Bible, but never the whole thing cover to cover. I am so very excited to do this, as I know I will be blessed and challenged by doing so.

The Lord has already shown Himself in amazing ways. Like He has reiterated to me that He gives second changes to men such as Abram....and people such as myself. He has made me aware of the fact that I need to guard against building "towers of Babel," things that I feel elevate me to somewhere higher than God. And I am only on Genesis Chapter 20!

I have a feeling I am in for a year of amazing things.....as long as I remain open to what God has for me. Even in the book of Numbers ;-)

War Horse--Movie Review

Movie: War Horse
Starring: Jeremy Irvine, Emily Watson, Benedict Cumberbatch, Tom Hiddleston, Peter Mullan
Rated: PG-13
My Rating: 3 out of 5 stars

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Albert Narracott (Jeremy Irvine) has his eyes on this thoroughbred horse...only thing is, he knows it will never be his. His family is poor; they don't even have enough rent money. His father, Ted, (Peter Mullan) is out getting a plough horse so they can plant a field of turnips....and pay their debts. But in a moment of drunkenness and one upmanship, Ted buys the thoroughbred...much to wife, Rose's, (Emily Watson) dismay. Ted knows that it won't plough the field, but Albert is determined to make Joey (what he dubs the steed) earn his keep.

Believe it or not, he does. Albert trains his beloved horse to pull a plough and plant the field. It appears as if everything is rosy, yet a little event called World War I comes calling. The said turnip field has been destroyed due to a rainstorm, thus destroying the Narracott's means of payment. Ted, in order to pay his debts, takes Joey and sells him to Captain Nicholls (played by an underused Tom Hiddleston)....all unbeknownst to Albert. Albert learns of the transaction too late, but Captain Nicholls vows to protect Joey and return him when the war is over.

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Rare is it that I sit through a movie going..."I hate this. I hate this." But I'm not going to lie, there were quite a few moments where I was doing this. You see, I have a low tolerance for animals in pain. I cannot watch ASPCA commercials; I change the channel. It's a good thing I don't go to the humane society or else I would want to take every single one of those animals home with me. I'm sensitive. No, I don't endorse PETA, but animals being hurt is tough for me.

I wouldn't necessarily classify War Horse as a film in how we would classify a film--you know with one protagonist, an antagonist, etc. We more get little vignettes as Joey changes owners throughout the course of the war. Personally, I would have wished for more screen time with a couple of them; there was the potential to see how the war affected the humans in the story. The original owner of Joey, Albert, is shown at the beginning of the film and then at nearly the end. I would have liked to have seen status of him and his family throughout the film's two hour and fifteen minute duration.

It is going to sound terrible, but my favorite thing in this movie is the cinematography. I sat at the theatre wishing I was in the United Kingdom; seriously, it is on my bucket list to go there someday. Also, the filming of the war sequences was very well done. Though considering the fact that Steven Spielberg directed it, I am not surprised.

Joey goes through a lot in this film. In one instance, he is forced to pull German cannons up a hill. They are too heavy for the poor horse and you see the struggle kill many a steed. (Thankfully, when they get shot, it's outside of the camera's range.) Another time, Joey runs into, and gets tangled up in, a fence of barbed wire. The poor boy is so hurt; I wanted to jump through the screen and take care of him. I do war movies--I mean, this latest season of Downton Abbey is amazing despite it taking place in WWI. But animals don't do pain well...so if you are sensitive to that sort of thing, I would say avoid the movie.

It does have a happy ending. And they are positive rays on sunlight in the film. Though they are precious few....that being said, I still managed to bawl ;-)

Deadly Pursuit--a Book Review

Title: Deadly Pursuit (Guardians of Justice #2)

Author: Irene Hannon

Published Date: 2011

My Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars

Synopsis from back of book:

Social worker Alison Taylor has a passion for protecting children. But now it seems as if she needs protecting. When her tormentor's attentions take a violent turn, she calls in reinforcements--her police detective brother, Cole, and his new partner, ex Navy SEAL Mitch Morgan. As her relentless stalker turns up the heat and the danger intensifies, Mitch takes a personal interest in the case. Because protecting Alison has become more than a job; his future depends on keeping her safe.

Filled with nail biting suspense and heart-melting romance, Deadly Pursuit is Irene Hannon's storytelling at its very best.

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Review of my own:

Irene Hannon is fast becoming one of my favorite authors. Every time I discover a new release, whether it is browsing the shelves of Family Christian Stores or Barnes and Noble, I hurry to read the latest offering for myself. I have never been disappointed by the five books I have read in her law enforcement series (three in one, two in her latest offering), but Deadly Pursuit is at the top of my favorites....or else, it is barely behind Against All Odds as my top choice.

Characters that I am introduced to in the first book of the "Guardians of Justice Series", Fatal Judgment, make an appearance. IN fact, they play very important roles. Ms. Hannon has said that this series is about the Taylor family. Book 1 focused on brother Jake, this one on sister Alison....the third will have to be about Cole, I just know it ;-) But all three siblings reoccur in the book. I like that; we spend time getting to know them, it's nice that they don't fall by the wayside.

Alison is one of the strongest heroines that Irene Hannon created. She is feminine, yet strong in her actions. Her faith is important to her, yet she also has an independent streak. Alison is dedicated to her job as a social worker; she would be one I would want to have around. Because of some dealings that my family has had with the State (in the hopes of adopting once upon a time), I know that Ms. Hannon did her research. What Alison goes through regarding vindictive people she has helped put away (as well as the scenes regarding people in the system)...it's all entirely realistic. It is saddening too.

Mitch Morgan fits in with the type of characters we are thrilled to have as heroes. Many of his characteristics are ones I would love in a future spouse. He is dedicated to his job, he likes protecting people. He is close to his father, even moving back home when his father needed him. His faith finds a reemergence....and the lengths he goes to protect Alison. Yep...it's sexy in its own way.

I cannot encourage y'all enough to read these books. They have romance, intrigue, suspense--those are things I like in my stories. I am not sure when her next book is coming out, but you can be sure I will read it.

If anyone has read, or will read, these books, feel free to give me your opinions on them!

2011 in Retrospect

How would I sum up 2011 in one word? For this writer, having to limit myself can pose a challenge...but if a gun was held to my head and this question was given to me, I would say different. That indeed is what 2011 was for me. It was vastly different than I had expected it to be.

Going in, I knew a few things. I mean, I knew that my family would have major financial struggles, that we wouldn't spend holidays with family, that I was beginning a job but frankly, there were thoughts of quitting....but the Lord had different plans. ON that score and on so many others.

I have grown to love my job; I get along with some coworkers much better than I ever thought possible. (That is credit to God and not me!) I began a crazy journey called CollegePlus where I now have forty-five college credits...and who knows where that will take me. I have had friends come into my life, friends leave my life. I have found a church that I feel alive and where I am being fed. My writing opportunities have been huge blessings--Femnista and another one I will go into detail later. NONE of this did I foresee.

That is why I am not into resolutions. I make my own plans and while they might have good intentions, the Lord often has different things He wants to be the focus of my year. Different doesn't mean bad or wrong--it usually is very good. As 2011 closes, I do find myself thanking the Lord that He revealed that such truth to me. His ways are best, His timing is best.

A dear friend of mine shared this following song with me and now, I want to share it with you. It's how I am "praying" in 2012. There is much unknown for me and for my family. Will my dad still have a job in 2012? Will my family move closer to our extended family? Where will my college journey lead me? What trips will I be able to take? Most importantly, what spiritual lessons will be laid before me to learn? See.....so many questions and no answers. But there is One who does.

Just like how that was enough in 2011, I am "resolved" to make that be my anthem of 2012. So, I guess I am making a resolution after all... Christ is going to lead and I am going to trust.

May you all have a wonderful start to 2012 and I will see you on the other side!

The House of Silk--A Sherlock Holmes Novel

Title: The House of Silk, a Sherlock Holmes Novel

Author: Anthony Horowitz

Published: 2011

My Rating: 4 out of 5 stars

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If you haven't figured it out by now, I am a Sherlock Snob. I love the man created by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle and if anyone is not faithful to his representation, well, then, I won't get near it. (Evidenced by the fact that I will NOT do the Robert Downey Jr. films. I get irritated just watching the commercials.) So, I am sensitive towards books as well......but upon doing research into "teen reads" at work, I stumbled upon this author and I just had to check out the book.

What I discovered was that Anthony Horowitz created a novel that the Conan Doyle Society added to their "canon." Meaning that now, this book will be considered part of Sherlock's story along with those penned by the original creator. That is high praise, but I had to see for myself.

What came about was a book that I did not want to put down. It was written much like Sherlock's beginning stories, with Dr. Watson penning everything to paper. We have Inspector Lestrade and even The descriptions of London are very vivid and the story is quite interesting. We go from a mysterious man--to a theft--to white ribbons and Holmes on trial for murder. Yes, we run the gamut....but I loved that.

Here is the only thing some people viewed negatively. The end result of where the mystery leads is definitely a taboo topic. It is argued that Sir Arthur Conan Doyle would not have written something along the lines of pedophilia. I beg to differ--it is never graphic, it is not condoned, and actually all of the evidence points to it. It did take me by surprise (I can never know Sherlock's genius before he does), but I wasn't offended by the journey taking us there. Bad guys get busted, after all ;-) Yet it is up to you as to whether or not you want to try it.

Doyle is the master, but Horowitz can hold his own. If he does publish more, I will read them. I do love a journey back to 221b Baker Street....when it is done properly ;-)

We Bought a Zoo--a Movie Review

Movie: We Bought a Zoo

Starring: Matt Damon, Scarlett Johansson, Elle Fanning, Colin Ford, Maggie Elizabeth Jones

Rating: PG

My Rating: 4 out of 5 Stars

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Benjamin Mee (Matt Damon) is at the end of his rope. The love of his life, Katherine, died six months earlier, leaving him bereft and the lone parent to raise his two children, Dylan (Colin Ford) and Rosie (Maggie Elizabeth Jones.) It isn't easy--especially where Dylan is concerned. He has been expelled from school and withdrawing more and more into himself. Benjamin is no longer the "Anderson Cooper" of the journalism world and he is tired of all the women at school drop offs giving him lasagna dishes....it is time for a fresh start.

What better way to do that than buy a zoo? Benjamin does such a thing, not knowing a blessed thing about animals or running a wildlife park (complete with lions, tigers, and bears, OH MY ;-)) And this wildlife park is in need of someone who can restore it to its former glory. Kelly Foster (Scarlett Johansson) is one of the lone zookeepers still around, willing to give Rosemeer Wildlife Adventure Park a chance....and Ben a chance at making a go of it. It won't be easy for Benjamin to do any of these things, but life is an adventure. You have to try and sometimes, you do succeed.

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I think I have developed a new tradition......go see a Matt Damon movie the day after Christmas. I did last year (with True Grit) and I did this year. I will be up front with you. He is the primary reason why I went to this movie. I'm a huge fan of his and I loved all of the promotion he did for this movie, talking about his wife and daughters. But I also love zoos. It is weird, I know, but I love wild animals. Seeing ones up close that remind you of the exotic travels one might only experience in books. That is an emotion zoos awaken in me. So, We Bought a Zoo is definitely my kind of film.

What I also loved is something that will throw a lot of families off. It's rated PG, but it is NOT a slapstick, animals talking, belly laughter because of jokes kind of film. Advertising could lead some to believe that it would be. Rather, it is a film that does talk about the death of a family member, a child being rebellious, money struggles, and coming together like a rainbow after a rainstorm. I like those themes in a film.....but eight year olds probably find them boring. In my crowded theater, I wonder just how many kids wanted to go see Alvin and the Chipmunks or Arthur Christmas instead. Language also makes the rating deceptive--I caught the Lord's name in vain a few times. More importantly, the S*** word was said about four times.

Yet it comes down to my experience--did I enjoy it? Absolutely and completely, I did! I'm not a fan of Scarlett Johannson, but at least she didn't do the whole sexpot thing. Elle Fanning plays ScarJo's niece and I liked her character....she has grown up since Because of Winn Dixie. The kids are great actors and Rosie, well, you just want to gobble her up. The musical score of We Bought a Zoo is lovely and the animals are examples of God's amazing creation.

I don't want to go out and buy a zoo, but I will watch this true story again. (No lie, it is a true story.) It's inspiring and sentimental, yet thought provoking at the same time. I like that in a movie. Little kids might not, but big kids will.....and the zoo brings out the little kid in all of us. Who doesn't like that?!

Merry Christmas

Today, the Greatest Gift ever was born in Bethlehem. He was the one who would save the World, the one who loves us with an infinite love. It wasn't a gift that we deserved, but He bestowed it on us anyone.

Merry Christmas to each and every one of you!!

Favorite Christmas Viewings and Listenings.....and Not So Much ;-)

I have been MIA for the past week, which is a shame really. I had so many Christmas posts spinning around in my head. But school took precedence.....yet now I have two glorious weeks off from school books and then you will be stuck with me. Aren't you lucky? ;-)

A Christmas post is swirling around in my head to be done on Christmas Eve (or Day), but a fun one has been spinning around as well. I'm borrowing a play out of my friend's playbook and doing a post about what my favorite TV show Christmas episodes and movies are. =D

TV Shows First

Touched by an Angel Christmas episodes--I don't always like the super laid back attitude that the show takes towards God and Christianity, but the episode where Monica ministers to someone and shares with them the story of Mark Twain's later years. It makes me cry every time. Another episode where I cry is when a brother comes to terms, and begins to love, his autistic brother.

The Man in the Fallout Shelter--Bones Season 1--It is the episode when Brennan brings back a body to her lab. Nothing out of the ordinary right? Well, the body has a toxic fungus all over it, causing the Jeffersonian Institute to go into lock down....with everyone in it. Bones doesn't see what is so importance of Christmas; every one else had other plans and expectations of where they were going to be. It is a nice episode that delves slightly into the character's personal lives.

The Santa in the Slush--Bones Season 3--This episode cracks me up from start to finish. It involves the murder of a man named Kris Kringle, a Santa for hire. Meanwhile, Brennan is trying to fulfill her father's wish for a family Christmas (which is complicated when family members are in jail) and if she has to kiss Booth under the mistletoe to get it, she is willing. I love this episode...big time. =)

Mr. Monk and the Secret Santa--MONK Season 4--Who hates Christmas more than Adrian Monk? I can't think of anyone. He hates parties, he does want a gift that is a living thing....he would definitely prefer solving a murder involving drugged alcohol....a secret Santa gift that was meant for Captain Stottlemeyer. We laugh a lot in this episode

Almost any NCIS Christmas episode--NCIS has a tendency for a heartwarming Christmas episode. The one on a few weeks ago could have been my favorite thus far (and since I have friends who haven't watched it yet ;-), I shall not reveal what it was about.) Also, there could have been some of the episode where they have dinner at Ducky's.....or was that at Thanksgiving? LOL

Movies Christmas isn't Christmas Without

A Charlie Brown Christmas--What can I say? I am a little kid at heart. I adore this movie...especially that in it brief half hour time period, we are reminded of what Christmas is really about. Through the words of Linus, we are drawn back to Bethlehem and where our thoughts should lie.

White Christmas--Bing Crosby singing this iconic song screams Christmas.....so does the musical. Who cares if it is old? I still love it as much as I did when I first watched it. I have all of the songs memorized; I sing along and when my brother can sit through it, you know that it is a winner.

It's a Wonderful Life--Who could hate this movie? I ask you!!!!! This is our Christmas night tradition. George Bailey, Clarence the angel, Bedford Falls.....this movie makes me so happy every time I watch it. I cannot wait to see it this year.

Christmas Box--I haven't read the Richard Paul Evan's book, but I have watched Richard Thomas's film. Again, it puts Christmas in perspective, reminding us that love, family, and a child are what we need to focus on and all the days of the year......though it does drive me up the wall that it was clearly filmed in summer and takes place in Utah....around Christmastime.

The Nativity Story--Nothing puts the reminder of the true meaning of Christmas in our hearts more than the actual story. The call of Mary (and of Joseph) to fulfill prophecies by traveling to Bethlehem and having the Savior born there. Ah, our Christmas Eve tradition

Hallmark flicks--Okay, there are some really bad ones out there and I have a high tolerance for cheese. ("Annie Claus is Coming to Town" has been one of the worst thus far.) But The Christmas Card is an absolute must. For their new offerings this year, I liked Debbie Macomber's Trading Christmases.

The Holiday--I do not approve of this movie completely, but there is a lot of good in it. Seeing Jack Black in a romantic comedy, be a sweet character, and not remind me of Nacho Libre is a huge accomplishment. Favorite scene ever is the one with Jude Law's daughters....yep. I am a sap.

Favorite Songs

O Holy Night--When you get a powerhouse voice singing this....WOW
All I Want For Christmas is You--Glee's version is catchy (and no, I am not a Gleek)
All I Want For Christmas is a Family--Steven Curtis Chapman's song about adoption speaks to my heart in a major way
I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day--Henry Wadsworth Longfellow's song is beautiful. I love to sing all of the verses

I have other ones.....but they are too numerous to list.

Okay.....what I Hate

Elf--that movie is super stupid. Brother loves it, I hate it.
A Christmas Story--Granted, I have never watched it, but the commercials don't look appealing. And I hate the hype every year.
The Little Drummer Boy and Do You Hear What I Hear---I hate those songs.... HATE THEM =D

Two Tickets to the Christmas Ball--a Book Review

Title: Two Tickets to the Christmas Ball

Author: Donita K. Paul

Rating: 3 out of 5 stars

Stepping into a secondhand bookshop, Cora could never have believe that her life was about to change. She meets the bookstore owners who seem to belong in a nineteenth century Dickens novel....and who are talking about the Wizard's Christmas ball. It is the last thing she plans on going to, but then she meets up with Simon, a fellow coworker.

Simon is also invited to the ball and just like Cora he has no intention of going. But when his sweet, mentally challenged sister, Sandy, finds out about the ball, there is no stopping her. Paths cross with Cora repeated and one must ask the question: is there a reason for this?

I did not hate the book, though it did veer towards a fantasy story more than I anticipated. I mean, there are people who remind me of Flora and Fauna in Sleeping Beauty. There is an evil relative much like the evil stepsisters in Cinderella. Dresses seem to take on a mythical element much like something in a Disney film. I also really liked the Christian messages that were conveyed and there was an element reminding us all of the true meaning of Christmas. That was one of my favorite parts.

But the writing style was, in my opinion, of poor quality. It drove me up the wall. I didn't find myself in love with most of the characters, with Sandy being the exception. The plot was occasionally bizarre and entirely predictable. It made for a quick read that while albeit pleasant, not necessarily a favorite.

I received this book free through Blogging For Books.

A Friend Found in a Toy

For Andy, there was Woody and Buzz Lightyear. They were his friends all through childhood. They had so many adventures together, both in make believe and when they toys came alive when alone. Bad guys were always vanquished and everyone, at day's end, would be tucked safely into their own beds. Nothing would get in the way--not the creepy kid next door, or Emperor Zerg, or Stinky Pete, or Lots of Huggin' Bear.

Yet inevitably, Andy has to grow up. The toys are put away in a chest, rarely touched. College is no place for Mr. Potato Head or a plastic dinosaur. But those memories are not easily erased. They are ones that will bring a smile to your face no matter how many years go by. That is why Andy doesn't sell them or keep them at Sunnyside Daycare....they are given to Bonnie who will cherish them for many years, just as he did. And best of all, he gets to play with them one more time upon delivery to the little cutie pie.

I bawled when I saw Toy Story 3 in the theaters. I loved it in a way that animated movies don't often achieve. It resonated with me. Some like to say they grew up along with Andy; I know I go in that category. He was moving into different faces of life when I was, yet he was also sad to fully leave childhood ways aside.

My "Woody" and "Buzz" comes in the form of my Samantha doll. It was my favorite Christmas present ever. I got her when I was eight and oh, the adventures I had with her. I often played that I was her mommy and we had tea parties together. I was a doctor who doctored her extreme ailments and brought her to work with me. When my Bitty Baby joined the crew, Samantha became a big sister....and she was a very good one.

It was around age fourteen and fifteen that I ceased playing with her. I definitely had gotten too old for those things--plus I had homework ;-) But I didn't have the heart to put her away in the attic or in a box. She still sits on a shelf, slightly dusty, but a constant reminder of my childhood. Maybe a reminder to always keep a childlike faith and yet grow and mature at the same time---instead of becoming more of a cynic. All I know is that while I don't change Samantha's clothes anymore, I will be like Andy (whose first intentions were to put the toys in the attic); I plan on keeping Samantha for that day when, Lord willing, I have a daughter of my own.

She will have her own adventures with Samantha, just like Bonnie will undoubtedly have different adventures than Andy have. But regardless, our toys will always be our friends.

You've got a friend in me
You've got a friend in me
When the road looks rough ahead
And you're miles and miles
From your nice warm bed
You just remember what your old pal said
Boy, you've got a friend in me
Yeah, you've got a friend in me

--Randy Newman--

So thank you, Samantha. Thanks for the memories......and thank you, Pixar, for helping me relive them every single time.

The Christmas Wedding--a Book Review

Title: The Christmas Wedding

Author: James Patterson

Published Date: 2011

My Rating: 2 out of 5 stars

Gaby sends her children a very cryptic Christmas message. She is getting remarried again, after being a widow for several years. The odd thing is that three guys have asked her....and she will not reveal who she has chosen until the actual day. Actually, not until she walks down the aisle. It sounds just like the Bachelorette.

All of her children have problems. One has a deadbeat of a husband whose stoned ways have rubbed off of her dead beat son. Another has left her job because of her touchy, feely boss. One has a husband battling a brain tumor and another is struggling in the publishing world. But there is no way in the world that they will not return home for a Christmas wedding.

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Frankly, if this book was any indication of how James Patterson writes, I sincerely question how he makes his money. The Christmas Wedding was not a superbly written piece of fiction. It wasn't written in any exceptional form. Chapters are sometimes a page in length....yes, I said a page in length. It is also hard to get emotionally invested with the characters. One of my coworkers said that it was a tear jerker. I did not shed one tear.

Add in language--which was a major factor. F words peppered the pages, as well as other basic profanities. I didn't hate it, do not get me wrong, but it wasn't a must read every December either.

Full of Questions

11-1

6-6

9-3



These numbers are ones circling around in Boise State fans' minds these days. It isn't a good thing, just so you know. You would have to live here to understand the magnitude of these numbers. Boise State's football season is over (I can hardly believe that it started twelve weeks ago.) We finished 11-1 and yet, we do not get to go to one of the big name, big money bowl games......instead, a 9-3 team is.....and we are playing a 6-6 team.



Any of you understand football? Or are you coming up with all sorts of questions?



Let me just say that I have a whole bunch of questions myself. Where is the justification? Who thought up that....pardon my language here....crap? It doesn't make sense.



It causes me to remember that much in life doesn't make sense. Why are young kids given cancer? Why do hardworking people struggle to provide food for their families and yet reality tv stars rake in the big bucks? Why have I had to make a choice between paying my way through school or having a driver's license? Why, why, why!!!!



But I am also reminded that I won't always know the answer to the whys. That isn't the way that God works. It is in those whys that He reveals himself; it is where he teaches and challenges.....yes, I can have my doubts and say them aloud to the Lord....but I might not exactly get anywhere.



There is a point to them. Who knows what it might be, yet that is the truth of the matter. There is a reason the Broncos are going to the Las Vegas Bowl instead of the Fiesta or Sugar Bowl. There is a reason we all go through the hills and valleys.



It's in God's hands to bring order and reconciliation to the messes of life. And yes, that really is the best place for them to be.

The Tudors, Season 1--A Movie Review

Title: The Tudors--Season 1

Starring: Jonathan Rhys Meyers, Sam Neil, Callum Blue, Henry Cavill, Natalie Dormer, Henry Czerny, Maria Doyle Kennedy, Jeremy Northam

Rated: TV--MA

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Divorce. Beheaded. Died. Divorce. Beheaded. Survived. That was the way many school children are taught to remember the order of King Henry VIII's wives. Indeed it was how I was--but Showtime created a TV show that would make the stories come alive. What one watches is an costume drama that entertains, though not without its flaws.

Here is the problem. I cannot give a review as I usually do them. For you see, I watched this series edited. There is no way I can recommend it otherwise. (Trust me, I came across some things on Youtube and I am so glad that I do not have to sit through them. *Gag*) The Tudors is a major bodice ripper--there is a lot of skin action going on--as well as some language. But since my friend edited out the content via ClearPlay, I have been able to enjoy them. I know the time period was filled with debauchery as it is; I don't need to see it.

Henry VIII holds a fascination for me; it has ever since high school. So, there are a few inaccuracies that bug and annoy. Things like names, dates--they are changed for artistic license. I get why it was done (you can only fit so much in during an hour time slot), but that doesn't mean I always have to love it.

The acting is superb on all ends. Henry VIII (Jonathan Rhys Meyers) is, frankly, brilliant. I have to remember that at one point, Henry was a young guy and not the fat dude we see in paintings. He pitches really great tantrums as well ;-) Sam O'Neil plays Cardinal Wolsey--if I had one thing to say, I wish he was more villainous. That is how I picture the schemer to be. My friend writes that Katherine of Aragon (Maria Doyle Kennedy) is actually portrayed in a sympathetic light and I am inclined to agree. However, she also plays Vera Bates in Downton Abbey, so it wasn't always easy to be on her side.

There were so many people I knew watching this show. I think I got excited a few times going--"ooh, I know who that is." Gabrielle Anwar (Burn Notice), Jeremy Northam (Emma), Henry Czerny (Revenge), Callum Blue (Princess Diaries 2) all play vital characters to the plot. It was immensely enjoyable to see them. Also seeing them in gorgeous costumes, and not in modern day attire, was fun. I do not envy them filming in those outfits day in and day out.

I am very excited to watch season 2--edited still. If you can get your hands on such a copy, I would totally say watch The Tudors. As it is, I have added it to my guilty pleasures list. I probably shouldn't enjoy it like I do =D

Longing--a Book Review

Title: Longing
Author: Karen Kingsbury
Published: 2011

My Rating: 3.5 Stars

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Bailey Flanigan is a character not too unlike myself. She is a girl in the midst of the unknown, trying to make sense of the paths that are ahead for her. Is she to continue on Broadway? Is she to make another movie in Hollywood? What about the guys in her life--has she let go of Cody? Does Brandon really have her heart? She is clinging to her Savior as she looks for the answers.

Cody Coleman is still wrestling with the demons that occasionally conflict his soul. He has seen great progress in the lives of his football players. They have become more passionate about Christ, which has warmed Cody's heart. But Cody himself has some problems in his life. His girlfriend, Cheyenne, has been diagnosed with brain cancer and to top everything off, he realizes that he is still in love with Bailey. He can never feel about anyone else the way that he does about Bailey......but what can he do about it?

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I am a huge fan of Karen Kingsbury's works. Ever since I read her 9/11 series--and bawled my eyes out--I have read as many as I could get my hands on. Of course that means that I read all about the Baxter family which lead to Bailey Flanigan. Being the age of Bailey, I find her very easy to relate to. When I first began the series, I felt as if I was seeing my own life written out on those pages.

Longing takes place on the streets of New York city and the beaches of California. (I dream of the former and have been to the latter.) It also takes place on a football field and on the Broadway stage. Having the book start out around the Thanksgiving dinner table and reading it on that particular day just made me feel warm and happy inside. I feel like I am truly a part of the Baxter and Flanigan families in my own way.

Which makes the lower rating painful for me to give. I still loved it, don't get me wrong, but through the course of the book, Karen Kingsbury went down a path that irritated me. I can't give the story away, but it feels as if she is repeating a storyline that she has already done once before. Maybe it wouldn't peeve me so much.....if I wasn't on the side of all-American, war veteran, high school football coach.

I was so upset I cried at the end. Now, I always cry at Karen's books......but this time, there was a dual reason behind it. It was a good-bye scene (and I do NOT do those), but I was also frustrated. Perhaps this chronic pessimist will get the ending she wants come March; who knows...but I doubt it.

So, would I recommend Longing? Yes I would.....because I love Karen. But if you are on "Team Cody" (to borrow a Twilight colloquialism ;-), be prepared to get annoyed and question the author's decision.

Announcing: Femnista's Latest Issue

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If there is one thing this girl loves, it is a good crime drama. I have several on my list that I tune into week after week. This girl also fell in love with mysteries starting with Nancy Drew and ending with Sherlock Holmes....as you might imagine, this issue of Femnista might be my favorite yet.

It starts at the cover with Bones and Booth (yes, I love that FOX show; I count it a blessing that I get to review each season) and gets progressively better. Sherlock got his due--The Thin Man was touched on--and three of my favorite shows got recognition. Whenever my life settles down, I look forward to making a mug of tea and sitting down with it.

You all should do the same. I work with a collaboration of amazing writers and one spectacular editor.....we all hope that you enjoy Femnista's latest offering as much as we enjoyed bringing it to you.

Finishing the Race

As you all might have noticed, this blog has been semi-neglected the past few weeks. Sadly, I was faced with a choice: did I have my writing bug come out in the form of blog posts or in NaNoWriMo? Obviously, I chose the latter.

I told you all about my decision to write a novel in a month. Let's just say that it was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. In order to be completed by November 30th, I had to write an average of sixteen hundred words.....a day! That isn't a problem for me, but doing it every day--when you need to write your next article for Femnista or study school--demands a lot for you.

But I am here, tonight, to say that I did; the hard work paid off. Two days ago, I finished my story Hidden in Plain Sight. It is the story of the a young woman who witnesses a murder and an FBI agent who is tasked to protect her. It is nothing spectacular, very few people will see it....yet I feel like I won Olympic Gold.

It's good to be back here, though, with all of you. I have several ideas for blog posts coming up--including several movie reviews. So I hope I haven't lost you and that we will be together again. =D

Song of the Week--Thankful

I don't care if this song is Christmasy......this song sums up my feelings for this week. After all, we have so much to be thankful for.

Yes, I am like most Americans. The down economy has been rough for me and my family; I have had to go without.....but you know what, I am blessed beyond measure! My family, my friends, my job, my schooling, my faith; I would not change this life for anything.

What do you, my dear blog friends, have to be thankful for? Remember it this Thanksgiving Day!!

Never Say Never

Who has ever said the phrase "I will never do that" and then, you have had to eat your words? Raise your hand..........

Are everyone's hands up? Because mine are.

Oh, we could be here forever with my telling you tales of eating my words. It has happened so many times. But I am here today to tell you about an incident this summer, one where I never expected to happen.

My pseudo-little sister just celebrated her seventh birthday. Now you have to understand, I love this little girl and when she asks me to do something, I do it....but when I saw her this past summer, she asked me to watch the High School Musical Trilogy with her. My mouth went dry, my palms were sweaty...

You see, I had sworn that I would never watch those movies. In my legalism period, I viewed them through holier-than-thou eyes. I think I was above such things. Then, when I came out of that, I stayed away from the movies "to save face." But where my little sister was involved, I wanted to make her happy. So we did all three back to back to back.

I discovered that they were not half bad. Were they Academy award winning? Absolutely not. Were they the best thing I have ever watched? No. But I found myself tapping my foot and singing the songs. I even made one or two comments that will NOT repeat on here ;-) But I did manage to have a good time.

Yes, I am eating my words. God showed me yet again that I should never say never. (And unless you question, I am NOT a Bieber fan ;-)) I guess he wants me to be a "well rounded" individual, one who cares about making others happy than my preconceived notions.

Tell me, has this ever happened to you? If it hasn't, I warn you--it will. LOL

A Stopping Point on Superficiality

I'm gonna confess my obsession right now: I am infatuared with wedding shows. It's the little girl in me, the one who dreams about her wedding day, the one who has begun a Pinterest Board with plenty of inspiration ideas. I love watching other women, who are actually in relationships, go to Kleinfield's Bridal in NYC and "say yes to their wedding dress."

It is a ridiculous show--I watch as women trying on dresses as "cheap" as $3,000 to $50,000 dollars...and not bat an eye about it. I laugh for so many reasons. Let's just say that I will NOT be spending that much money on a dress. (I am of the philosophy that expensive doesn't always mean best.) And since some of the dresses look like garbage, well, it makes me laugh even more.

It's a show that reminds how weddings are truly being brought down to a superficial level. Not to drop names...but Kim Kardashian does come to mind when I think about a topic such as this. Brides are so focused on the cake, the dress, the DJ, they cease to focus on the vows and the importance of what this day actually entails.

But recently, I watched a version of these shows--Brides of Beverly Hills--(yeah, that says it all) where I had to stop at myself. I cannot watch a bride care about how high of a price tag the dress might have....not caring about how she looks in it.... Being on the petite side, I couldn't take a consultant tell me that I was not "well endowed" and she had me some enhancements, but a someone did just that to a bride. And sorry, I don't want to watch an adult film star shop for a dress. Yeah, it's not for me.

God revealed to me that I do have to stop with how much superficiality I allow myself to entertain. I can enjoy a "guilty pleasure" every now and then (and I totally do ;-) ) But as a girl who struggles with discontent, I need to find the areas where I can cut back. I do have those dreams of the grandious wedding and I struggle with my body image. Why would I want to watch one show that could cause me to stumble?

I guess I have a word of warning: always be on the lookout for superficiality....and do NOT let it change you. I am, with God's grace, doing my best to remain ME and not what the world says I should be. My hope and prayer is the same thing for all of you!! <3

CMA Awards 2011--Fashion Recap

I am a country music girl. I'm not going to lie to you. Because I am so familiar with many of today's stars, I live and breathe every award show that airs on TV. Last night, ABC aired the 45th Annual County Music Association Awards....and I was right there.

I did an Emmy Fashion Recap. How could I not do one here? There isn't as much, but I would enjoy hearing your thoughts on the dresses you might have seen or your opinion on the show itself.

My girl, Carrie Underwood, and Brad Paisley hosted for the fourth straight year. I've got to tell you, they can keep the job for as lnog as either of them wants it. I love it! They always playfully poke fun at current headlines/events (and do it in a much nicer way than Ricky Gervais ever does ;-)

Carrie's first look, of eight, is up top there. Yes, it is short, but I love the assymetrical detailing....and the shoes!! This scene was the opening monologue. If you can, find it on Youtube: it is a hoot!


Carrie donned this floral dress at some point in the evening. I didn't get to see the full view and let me tell you, I swooned! It is so girly, so very Carrie.....and again, her shoes look fantastic! I think this was my favorite look.

Up top are three more looks Carrie donned. Don't condemn me that I like them. Yes, they are short.....but they are just so darn cute. I would say my favorite is the white one. It's just very, very unique.


I am mixed about this one, to the left....it's one shouldered, which I love. It is a gorgeous color--borders between peach and salmon--but that tulle attachment confuses me. I saw a picture of the dress on the Runway and it was a lot more perky. Here it hangs on Carrie....almost as if it got caught somehow. It's a shame really.

Now we begin the red carpet looks. Jennifer Nettles (Sugarland) is up top...let me just say that it is lovely on her. I couldn't pull it off.....MUCH too drapey for me. But since Jennifer usually wears dark colors, I loved this for a change.


Taylor Swift's gown resembles a bridal gown to me. I hate that poof at the side (and I do like poofs ;-) Does it seem wedding like to any of you?

Faith Hill looks incredible, even if her dress IS boring. I mean, she is bordering on sporting '80s hair to begin with. But there is nothing to break up the look. The back had cutouts, which I liked....I just think she could have kicked it up a notch.

Carrie walked the red carpet in addition to her hosting duties. She always goes for the sparkles, which I think look welll on her. The part I am on the fence about? That gold patch right across the hips....doesn't look quite right to me...but her hair looks fantastic.

So, like I said, just a little recap.....I didn't want to bore y'all. =D I do love talking about fashion....trust me, if I ever get to walk the red carpet, I am discovering things I love....and things I hate! =D

Song of the Week

I have decided to add something new to my blog. IN the midst of fashion recaps, contemplative writings, and movie reviews, I have decided to do a feature I will call "song of the week." It is going to be the song that I really enjoyed that week. It could be a country song (which is altogether very likely), a Christian song (also likely)....you just never know

Today, I am doing a country song. Country music is my favorite genre for a multitude of reasons. But the big one is that it tells a story. I can usually sum up country music using the words "God, family, and country" (Although my brother, teasingly says: cars, dogs, and beer........true enough) Martina McBride's latest I'm Gonna Love You Through It was a song that caused me to slightly smear my mascara. It painted a story for me.

It's the song of a woman with a breast cancer diagnosis. I have known a dear woman in my life who had such an event a couple years ago. The song is kind of sung from the friends/husband's perspective--which is exactly how I pictured it in my head. Low and behold my mother did as well.

So turn off the music player that I have down at the bottom and listen to this song. I bet it will speak to you in some small way, even if it only serves to remind you of someone in your family you have had to love through a difficult circumstance

The video is here........

Encountering a Problem

I needed to do a quick post about something quite important........

I am a person who likes to comment back when people visit my blog. However, I have been unable to do so because y'alls blogs won't let me ;-) At least what I am encountering, those blogs that have their comment page embedded into the post, my computer doesn't like it.

So, I promise my readers that I DO love you and your posts...but unless either you change it or if my computer stops being weird, I will be unable to communicate that to you!

Just wanted to give you the courtesy of knowing

Challenging Myself

I love a challenge. When I try to remember back to when that first happened, I think my piano teacher is the one to thank. She always was giving my hard pieces by Mozart, Chopin, and Haydn. They weren't my favorite composers to begin with, but piano festivals were hinging on how well I mastered their movements.

So many tears ensued as I encountered frustration after frustration. I thought it was too hard. The whole entire thing was annoying. Many practices found me wanting to give up. But I didn't--though a big part was my teacher not letting me. She had set the bar high on purpose; she knew I had the capability of reaching it, even surpassing it. And while I still hate Haydn like the plague, she was right--I did master the piece I was learning. I had a sense of accomplishment that would not have been found had I given up.

Fast forward to today...do you remember when I complained about not being able to write fiction? Well, every November, NaNoWriMo issues a challenge. Write a fifty thousand word novel in thirty days. It sounds impossible, right? But I have decided to give it a shot. So, that is what I am going to be doing. In addition to work, school, writing commitments, family time, and TV shows, I am going to write a book.

I said I like a challenge. The Lord will give me the strength and ability to do it, as much as He wants....here's hoping I can top the bar!

What are some bars that YOU have set for yourself this upcoming month?

A New Issue

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I am very excited to bring to y'all the latest issue of Femnista! It was the so called "bonus issue", the subject being "fur and fangs"...and everything in between. There is everything from "Beastly" to the pros and cons of "Twilight." I look forward to reading it. I hope you all do too!

My Very First Interview!

Among the silly dreams I have for myself is being a journalist. The kind who doesn't have a bias and instead "asks the hard questions" to both those she likes....and those she detests =D Reporters aren't like that nowadays; I can count them on one hand.

However, I need practice. This might sound silly, but I feel the Lord dropped an opportunity into my lap. A week or so ago, I read an article that really, REALLY spoke to me. So much so that I felt the urge to share it with y'all. Since I am not sure if you have read it or not, the article can be found here....well, after a portion to whet your appetite!

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"What would have happened if you'd have gotten married at nineteen?"

Mama and I were in her bathroom getting ready to go out and celebrate my sister's first birthday when she asked me that question. I sat on the stool where I've sat on countless mornings for the past ten years, watching her fine-tune her makeup long after I'd brushed up my hair and washed my bare face. Dad was in the living room with my siblings, waiting for us to get a move on, but we were taking our sweet time that day, conversing about everything under the sun.

Guys included.

I grinned. "I'd be a completely different person now," I told her.

Even though I'm a single girl who only knows of marriage what she's seen played out in front of her, I know that the person you decide to spend the rest of your life with plays a huge part in who you become. My dad would have been a different man if he hadn't found my mama, and vice versa. And if I'd have gotten married at nineteen, the age my dad was when he met my mom and married her six months later, I'd be a different woman than I am a mere two years hence. (Read On......)

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See why I got so excited?! I just had to delve deeper into the mind of the author and get all the details? What made her write it? What has the response been, considering to some it could be controversial? Thank goodness I didn't have to do the stuff like contacting agents, offer payment, so on and what not. The author is a dear friend, so I just asked....and she was gracious enough to accept. Unfortunately, the interview was conducted over Facebook and e-mail, since we live in two different states....but I think we managed very, very well.

So, without further ado, picture me as some smartly dressed, unbiased yet loving, Pulitzer winning journalist and we shall get started:

What inspired you to write your latest post?
I had been mulling over writing a post on singleness for a while, just trying to think of another way to encourage girls in contentment, but I kept hitting against a brick wall. I didn't want to say the same thing that's been said thousands of times: "Someday your prince will come; just hold the line, ladies." Then, when I talked to my mom and realized how much I'd changed in just these past two years, it came to me... yet again: singleness isn't about holding out for marriage. It's about living life in fullness and gratitude and growing each day.

Because of other's perception of you and your family, were you nervous about writing it?
Definitely. I have to worry about two completely different extremes when I write: people who have a tendency to idolize my family and I because of who they think we are -the perfect little household that never struggles with sin or brokenness, rough patches or growing pains -and people who, no matter what I say, think we're another sort of people -I've heard everything from "my parents are keeping me home using the guilt of caring for my younger siblings'" to "my dad is turning away countless suitors because no one is good enough for his baby girl." I have tried catering to both audiences before, and it really just ends in a lot of stress and over-long blog posts full of caveats, so when I wrote my most recent article, I just focused on saying what I wanted to say and praying that the Lord would be glorified through it.

If you are comfortable, would you mind giving one or two "real life" examples of how you would do things differently, as opposed to what you would have if you were married at nineteen?
Well, I can't say for sure how I would have been as a wife, because I wasn't married at nineteen, but one thing that is very different about me: when I meet someone, the most important thing they know is no longer that I live at home with my family, I go to a family integrated church, I was homeschooled, I didn't go the traditional college route, or I want to "court" instead of "date" (whatever those terms mean to my listener)... it's that I love Jesus Christ, who God the Father offered up as the perfect sacrifice for my sin. We can talk about all that this entails, and what my obedience to God's calling on my life looks like... but the importance of the decisions that flow from my gospel convictions has paled in comparison to the gospel itself. And I'm not afraid that one day I could have to amend my position on any one of those convictions, because it's not the particulars of my works that saves me, but God's grace.

So, be blunt --are you glad that you are not married now? Or would you rather have been married at nineteen and change after?
I'm happy I'm not married now because I wasn't ready to be married then. Marriage is difficult, and we're constantly changing, but I'm grateful to grow as much as I can as a single woman before coming one flesh with another sinful human being. Plus, I was attracted to the wrong-for-me kind of guy: someone who majored on the minors and didn't understand the minors and would lead me further into my tendency to add to the gospel instead of towards the purity of God's Word.

Do you feel that this was a message that needed to be said, especially in/to certain Christian circles?
It's hard to say. If I've said something that resonated with other young women and caused them to reevaluate an area of their lives that they hadn't brought under submission to God's will, I praise him for that. But I think the Lord is fully capable of working mightily without my corner of the blogosphere. =)

What has been the response to your honesty and openness?
The comments I've received have been very gracious, but that seems to have been the case since I started my new blog. It's a much quieter place, and I've been blessed with very kind commenters and friends... such as yourself. =)

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Many thanks to Jasmine Baucham for committing to this interview. We have an understanding: we shall both win a Pulitzer. She writes a book that changes the world, I do the interview, and we have proud husbands on our arms when we go to collect our awards. (Our Oscar comes before then....because actors are accompanying us on that occasion ;-)

If for some reason, you want to share this article/interview with anyone, go right ahead. This is Ella for FFF News, signing off.

Good Night and God Bless! =D