One Day....It's Spring

Weeping may go on all night, but joy comes with the morning. ~Psalms 30:5

"The grass withers and the flower fades, but the Word of our God stands forever." ~~Isaiah 40:8

"Who sends the rain that satisfies the parched ground and makes the grass spring up?" Job 38:27

"For the winter is past, and the rain is over and gone. The flowers are springing up, and the time of singing birds has come, even the cooing of turtledoves. The fig trees are budding, and the grapevines are in blossom. How delicious they smell! Yes, spring is here!"~~Song of Songs 2:11-13

Yes, it is spring! Praise the Lord! I fear it shall not be here long; indeed, it is going to be in the 90's this Saturday! But I shall enjoy it while it lasts...even for a few days.

Trusting in the Midst of Disappointment

Having dreams are a wonderful thing. Provided we don't let them consume us, they can be such blessings. It is even better when dreams come true. We are shocked, excited....we praise the Lord. But then, there are the times when dreams appear to come true...only to have it be not right now.

The past 72 hours have been such for me. For quite a while, I was entertaining a strong probability of going down to Alabama to meet my dear friends, Anna and Miriam. In my family, when one doesn't get an outright "no," you really get excited! So, it was basically decided that my mother and I were going to fly down there, spend time with them, and do some sightseeing in the South. All of today was spent looking at plane fare, hotels, car rentals, etc.

Doing so made things not so probable after all. In fact, things became a "no go." Costs seemed to get higher and higher (every time you hit a button), dates didn't compute with our schedule...and the clock struck midnight; my coach turned into a pumpkin.

But believe it or not, I am not crying. I am GREATLY disappointed!! To finally have met two of my close e-friends would have been incredible. However, the Lord has given me a sense of peace that can only have come from Him. I firmly believe that I shall meet these two (and my other "sisters") one day. I can't say when; I have learned that God's timetable and mine aren't the same.

Things like friendships, desires for marriages and babies....all of it is of God. They are talked about in the Bible often enough! Therefore, I believe they are more likely than not to be accomplished. The Lord gives us desires and sometimes a yellow light...but that doesn't mean it will never turn green. For now, a red light is what I have regarding Alabama. Yet like with driving around town, it doesn't stay that forever! He calls us to trust, though. It is easier to give up and say, "yeah right, it's always going to stay red." But it isn't what I want to do;I don't want to have a defeatist attitude. That gives Satan the victory.

I hope that in the midst of whatever disappointment you are facing, you trust the Lord. He makes a way where there seems to be no way!

A Mother's Love

Mothers are one of the most wonderful blessings from the Lord. They are the women who willingly sacrifice their desires and dreams in order to fulfill ours. They do the little mundane things that never get recognized. Far too often, we take these precious moms for granted....and that's stinks!

My mom is one of those wonderful people. She sacrificed some precious sleep last night to comfort me in the midst of stomach cramps. I felt bad about waking her up; she has trouble sleeping anyway. But she didn't turn me off and say, "I do not have time for you." She did quite the opposite.

In today's society, being a mother and a servant is something looked down upon. No one seems to have a problem with a girl whose desire is first and foremost be a doctor, lawyer, politican....even a chef. But a MOTHER??!! That's ridiculous, unimportant.....right? Well, for the record, that is my greatest desire.

By watching my mom take care of me, she has given me great source material for my future. I am so thankful for her today!! And I love her dearly!

A Silly Post For Once

I haven't posted something silly and ordinary for a while. So I thought I would today. You shall find out what is going on in my head at this moment....or immediately comes to it......scary! =)

I am: a great sinner who has been saved by a Great Savior

I think: a lot--and sometimes out loud

I know: that I don't know all the answers

I want: to meet my on-line friends one day

I have: the best family in the whole world

I wish: I was doing something for my graduation (long story)

I hate: being stereotyped by the news media

I miss: my grandparents down in Florida

I fear: stairs with holes in them

I feel: extremely blessed

I hear: Celtic Woman singing "You Raise Me Up."

I smell: the mango scent burner from upstairs

I crave: bagels, french bread, sweets.....junk food. Bad girl!

I search: the scriptures, books, and God's creation for the bulk of my writing inspiration

I wonder: how God will write my love story.

I regret: that far too often, I hurt those closest to me

I love: but it pales in comparison to God's love

I ache: in the stomach sometimes.

I care: about lots of things. My family, friends, country, etc.

I always: feel like my opinion needs to be known

I am not: into the High School Musical rage

I believe: that God's grace is all sufficient; that His faithfulness is great; He is more than enough

I dance: in the privacy of my room. I can't dance...or at least, I don't think I can. I have imaginary partners

I sing: all the time. And I don't care what I sound like!

I cry: in almist every movie....even Big Bird once

I don't always: clean the kitchen counter the greatest

I fight: not with fists, but sadly, with words

I write: because I love it and God has put it on my heart

I never: thought my life would be the way it is now

I listen: to music a lot

I need: to finsih up Mom's mother's day present

I am happy about: having this blog and the opportunities it brings to glorify the Lord

A Rebelution Poster Child

If there was ever a poster child for The Rebelution and Do Hard Things, I know who it would be. Why don’t you take a guess…His name is mentioned in the book (though he isn’t alive now.) He lived over in the Old World and was the equivalent to a Senator _____ of today. I am talking about William Wilberforce.

Amazing Grace is one of my favorite movies. I was one who saw it opening week at the theatre; I pre-bought it (only to have to wait an additional six months for it to arrive.) It can be a typical Sunday night movie at our house. Well, when you have just finished Alex and Brett’s book, “hard things” and “character, collaboration, and competence” are going to jump out at you. Even though I have studied Wilberforce to a very small degree, my recent viewing of the film made me more conscious of this amazing man’s life.

William Wilberforce was the leading advocate in England for abolishing the salve trade. It was one of his life’s goals. And it certainly didn’t come easily to him! Twenty years went by before he saw the fruits of his labors pay off. He questioned, he doubted…was the effort and cause worth all the defeat?

It is hard to wait for something you really want or feel passionate about. When we were little, the presents under the trees were torturous! As we get older, we can wonder about marriage and that “special someone” that doesn’t seem to be arriving. Yet these things pale in comparison to wanting something heinous to end (like slavery, abortion, etc.) and nothing seems to be happening. Even when we have the “character” of wanting to see a God-appointed task through, the competence to do it (Wilberforce was a good public speaker and politician), and the collaboration of many people helping us, sometimes it takes more than just snapping your fingers. Anything that is good and worth accomplishing takes time….years if need be. But, oh, how hard it is NOT to give up!

It’s like two football teams in the Super Bowl or BCS National Championship. One has it all: the 17-0 record, the quarterback, the coach, a winning tradition…the other team is constantly under fire for even running “with the big dog.” Suppose they said, “Aw, let’s go home. There is no chance of us winning—no one expects it anyway.” If certain teams I know of took that attitude, the sports annals would not have some amazing games in its archives. So, what if William Wilberforce had said, “my foes are against me. I have kept this up for so many years and I am not getting anywhere. Let someone else take up the fight—I am tired….” William would not be as praised if he had that attitude.

The world loves underdog stories. God does too. Gideon had far less soldiers than his foes; David was a shrimp compared to the giant Goliath. But neither of them abandoned the job God had for them to do. Wilberforce didn’t either and nor can I. We do have odds in our favor; countless people have had to fight and they have won.

William Wilberforce knew “Do Hard Things” very well. And actually, if it had been “Do Easy Things,” his story wouldn’t have been as inspiring. We should take that to heart. Hard is good…it gives God LOTS of room to show His awesome glory and power…but we cannot give up! Press on!

April's Reading List

I am normally bad about doing this after the month, but since I have time, I thought I would do it now!

Where My Heart Belongs, by Tracie Peterson~~This book I greatly enjoyed. It is a story set in modern times but with the heart of "The Prodigal Son....." only in a daughter's case. Repentance, a changed life, forgiveness, etc. are shown throughout the novel. It is one that at the end of reading, I was refreshed and happy. Now, if any one chose to read this, I will give a heads up. Since you know the nature of the real story, this one is like it. The daughter who leaves home was into some not so great things, but there is nothing graphic at all in it. I didn't have a problem reading it, and I would recommend it.

Jacob's List, by Stephanie Grace Whitson~~Another book I found through searching the CBD catalog (same as the previous title.) This one starts off depressing; it is the story of a family who loses their young adult son in a car accident. The mom and dad seek to finish his list of crazy things he would like to do. In the process, they learn to love each other all over again....and they learn about the saving grace and peace of God. Again, this one has a little element (the husband is kind of carrying on with another woman--yet nothing is graphic or even minor--it's just there) but a friend helps him get a grip of things and aids in bringing him back to his wife. So, it is good.

So Far From the Bamboo Grove, by Yoko Kawashima Watkins~~The more history reading I do, the more I realize how messed up our world is when it comes to "races." This book is the true story of Mrs. Watkin's flight from her home in Korea at the hands of the native Koreans...just because she and her family are Japanese, and the Koreans hate the Japanese. There is nothing I despise more than racial hatred; we all go back to the same first parents, Adam and Eve. If you want to know more about the events leading up to the Korean War through a dramatized account, you should read it.

The Korean War, by Carter Smith~~Okay, so I can't just read fiction books! =) This one gives more the logistics, dates, numbers, and facts of the Korean War. While I found it boring (I don't learn in a typical textbook format) I did find that I now know about the things people talk about. This and Vietnam were two wars that have shaped the world to what it is today.

Eric Liddell, Something Greater Than Gold, by Janet and Geoff Benge~~I enjoy most of the biographies put out by YWAM. The story of Eric Liddell goes along with where I am in history. After all, the movie "Chariots of Fire" is only a small part of the story. This gives the rest--of Eric's dedication to the Chinese people, of his not leaving when Japan took over the country, and of his dying in a prison camp.

Do Hard Things, by Alex and Brett Harris~~What more can I say on this one? A good friend of mine is right; it is on many people's reading lists this month! You can read my review here and the follow-up here.

An Island Far From Home, by John Donahue~~The Civil War is probably my favorite to study. I read a great many. This one is about a Northern boy who is encouraged by his uncle to write to a Rebel prisoner. At first he doesn't want to, but then, he becomes friends with the Southern prisoner, realizing that he is no different than himself. I enjoyed it.

Happy reading to you!

The Little Things Taken For Granted

It is often said that one never realizes what they have until it is taken away. I know how true that is, but this week, I was reminded of that even more. For......I got sick!

Sickness comes to each of us. It isn't unusual. A person is bound to get a lot of colds, sore throats, headaches, etc. in their lifetime. But for the record, I detest being sick. When you feel like you are swallowing golf balls and life would be so much easier if your head was chopped off, things are terrible! The past few days have been such for me. I have been drinking a lot of water (in the effort of trying to get rid of the golf ball); handkerchief #4 is at my side. And while I am definitely on the mend when you compare me to Friday and Saturday, I am not where I should or want to be.

Being healthy is something I can take for granted far too often. We don't seem to make a big deal about not having hankies and being able to see clearly.....instead of eyes watering to the point you can't do anything but watch TV. I really noticed this time just how much I depend on a clear mind, eyes, and nose. I love to read aloud; that becomes next to impossible with sore throats. I want to be in the kitchen....but I can't spread my germs to the others, so I don't. My writing schedule is next to impossible; how can one concentrate on writing about this when one's mind is in a fog.

It is like my other posts. Just as I make a big deal about the "big hard things" and neglect the "gaffers and costume runners." so I do the same thing with the blessings God has given me. I remember when I broke my arm back in 2000. I didn't realize just how important my right arm was until it was in a cast for 3 months (and I had to learn to write left-handed.) Needless to say, the seeming expected things can quickly be snatched away. Things like walking, seeing, talking, hearing, experiencing spring, etc.

I hope you all don't take for granted the little things this week. I certainly shall do my best not to do so! And someone read a book aloud for me please! my voice isn't quite ready for that yet!

Gaffers and Costume Runners

Credits are the most boring part of the movie. Unless you know that there is an extra scene afterwards, you don’t stick around the movie theatre. Or if it is for home viewing, the wonderful “menu button” comes in handy; you want to get on to the bonus features. So, unless you are a very unusual person, the majority of us pay little or no attention to the names AFTER the main actors. Who cares about gaffers and costume runners? What is a gaffer anyway?

I had to look it up. A gaffer is “a lighting electrician on a television or motion picture set.” A costume runner is someone who does just that: they run costumes to and from the dressing room to the head dress designer or actor. Honestly, these two people in particular certainly aren’t as glamorous as being a Gwyneth Paltrow, or an Orlando Bloom, or a Nicolas Cage. So, are they even worth mentioning? Alex and Brett’s book made me ponder this.

Gwyneth, Orlando, and Nick are doing “big hard things.” (If you want to say that about the movie industry =) What isn’t big about memorizing lines and cues, performing some of your own stunts, and remembering EVERYTHING? It takes a lot to do all this. Yet what they are doing isn’t the only way to “serve” the viewing public. Gaffers and costume runners, along with many others in seemingly insignificant roles, are doing “small hard things.”

Doing “small hard things” takes a lot of guts. You don’t get praise for it. Your name might appear in a cast of hundreds, but no one sticks around to see it. You aren’t nominated for the “Best Actor” or “Best Actress” award. And yet the movie could not go on without you. For if everyone was big, who would do the small?

The same is true for me. I am not doing much…when you compare me to the other Rebelutionaries in Do Hard Things. I haven’t been featured in magazines and newspapers, or spoken at concerts, or been approached to do something by someone important. When you think about it, you feel puny, unimportant, and a loser. I mean, golly, what is the point in staying home, serving around the house, and ministering to family, friends and neighbors? No one sees or cares…..right?

God does. To Him, “small hard things” and “big hard things” are the same in His eyes. Each is what He has called us to do. One is not more important than the other. And as long as He gets the glory, He doesn’t care if it is in the capacity of seeing poor Africans get clean water or by an unsaved neighbor seeing the Love of Christ through a plate of cookies and a smile.

I have to trust and cling to that. For now, the Lord has called me to be a gaffer. Perhaps by my being a “behinds the scene player” my future son or daughter is the one who will be “the name that everyone comes to see.” Do I ever question that being a gaffer is the way I am to be? Absolutely. Do I ever feel like I am doing positively nothing? Sure. But the Lord rewards ALL efforts for him…even if only lights are being lit or clothes are being washed. For without them, the set wouldn’t be visible to the viewer, the family would be smelly and dirty. As long as we serve in the capacity where we are to be, the movie of “Life” will be a box-office hit.

Do Hard Things

My book finally arrived! Well, actually, it did on Thursday. I had been looking forward to reading Alex and Brett's book for quite a while. It seemed like forever for them to write it and then for it to come out. However, the book was definitely worth the wait!

It had what every book should. It made you laugh (who couldn't with the shower story) and it made you think. I cannot emphasize that point enough. I am totally a Rebelutionary at heart, but Do Hard Things reinforced that even more. However, it made me ask questions like, "am I being faithful in the small hard things," or "am I remembering that my 'big hard things' are just that--hard--and yet are for my benefit?" It was a book that showed that teens are making a difference, even though it might seem so small a movement right now. However, we all do have different roles to play.

Yet the thing I appreciated most about Do Hard Things was that God was given the credit in it all. Alex and Brett, and all the others featured, made it clear that they struggle. They just strive to live for God, and they leave the rest up to Him. The acknowledgements said it best: "we deserve Your wrath, but You give us grace."

I cannot do the book justice. (Though I do have two posts that will show up this week;-) You all just need to read Do Hard Things for yourself. You won't be disappointed!

Collecting Recipes Even Now

I absolutely love cooking! I find such enjoyment in trying new recipes and making old family favorites. And even though the dishes part is not something I like about the whole process, I realize that it is an essential part of it.

My family members are wonderful cheerleaders in my cooking journey. Mom and I do a cookbook club together; Dad is constantly encouraging me to write it down when I find a new recipe. Garrett....well....he eats it for me! (And I know he will tell me when something is terrible.) Every different aspect of my family in this means a great deal to me. For truly, I have no desire to enter into marriage being unable to cook, a person who boils water and feeds her husband packaged macaroni and cheese.

This week, I have begun compiling a whole bunch of recipes for a family cookbook. Well, let me strike that. I have been writing a few recipes on recipe cards and putting them in my hopechest. But those are easily lost. A cookbook would ensure a legacy to carry on for future generations. So, with Mom and Dad's help, I am writing a list of so far 85 recipes that have been in the extended family or are our family's favorite eats. Sooner or later, I am going to get a cookbook making program and get it all on there, print it out, and keep that in my hopechest.

I was going to list two of them for you....but you know Blogger! Anyway, I want to encourage you all to think ahead and begin keeping recipes, buying cookbooks, and practicing what you have learned now! The waiting years are a prime opportunity to do all this! And I am sure you will grow to enjoy cooking and baking, as I do!

Not What You Envisioned

I thought spring was to have been here on March 20th! While most have you have been experiencing green trees, flowers and new life, I am still in the throes of winter. Yes, our daffodils have come up, but the rest of the valley looks barren. This Sunday, I will watch the Masters and look with longing upon lushness and....greenness! I can feel like it is Narnia before Aslan defeats the White Witch; it is all winter and the thaw is not beginning. Indeed, we had a dusting of snow on our ground this morning! This year has not been the one weather-wise that I had envisioned.

My life has been like that. Even a year ago, if you had told me where I would be in life, I would have laughed in your face. I had a pretty clear picture (in my mind) of how life was going to be. I had envisioned getting off the roller coaster ride and just walking on the boardwalk for a while. But my God had other plans for me...just like He had different plans for 2008's weather.

We often talk about how winter shapes us into who we are; that as a result we appreciate the spring more. I have done it before. However, if I were to be completely honest, I would confess that the thought doesn't always "ring true." We might know that "there is a time for everything, a season for every activity under Heaven." We don't doubt that "God has plans for our future and hope." But even resting in that doesn't stop us from saying, "Okay, Lord, I didn't envision this. I am doubting right now. Help my unbelief."

This week, the first in my Bible study has been Romans 8:28. "For we know that ALL things work together for good for those who are called according to His purpose." God does have a purpose in the bad, the uncertain, the gloom, and yes, in the unexpected, not envisioned circumstances of our lives...and ALL of it is good. It is so hard to remember; tears will still fall and doubts will still come. I know, it has been the theme of my week...and I have fallen flat on my face.

However, I am trying to hold on to the truths in Scripture that bring encouragement. Why would they be in there if not to minister to me when I need it the most? He is bringing the rain, yes; the thunderstorm wasn't what your "map" had planned out. But I know (I have to believe it) that when we get to the end of our life and we see how the not envisioned events really turned into growing events, we would not have had the Lord change one thing for a minute! May you rest in the arms of our Heavenly Father this week! They are big enough to hold all of us!

My Dad Has A Favor To Ask Of You

Some of you may know that my family has a woodworking business. Actually, it is Garrett who primarily does it. He is constantly out in the wood shop making things and looking for exotic woods on Ebay. Dad helps a lot too; the two of them do craft shows together. Me....well, I only keep the books and manage the checkbook.

Anyway, my dad has asked that I write on here asking for a blitz. HE DOES NOT WANT ANYONE TO FEEL OBLIGATED TO BUY ANYTHING!!!!! All that he desires is for you all to go to the website, check it out, and then e-mail the website address with any comments you might have. Perhaps it is advice on how to improve the website ( but only if any of you are computer graphics or web design minded.) Or maybe you have question about woods. Anyway, Dad wants to hear from you. He also wants to know where our website can reach. With Google Analytics, he is hoping to discover that we can get hits from every single state.

Sure, if you see something you like and want to buy, we won't discourage that. But to be prefectly clear, that is not the objective here. So, check out 3GWoodworks when you get a chance. Thanks so much! Dad appreciates it!

March's Reading List

I know I am little late in getting this out....Need to time my posts better, I guess! =) Anyway, here are little snipets of the books I read this month!

Hiroshima, by John Hersey--This was a very thought and question asking book. It followed the lives of six real life people during the bombings on Hiroshima. You discovered how their lives were immediately and lastingly affected by the atomic bomb. It also brought a lot of family discussion: "was the use of the atomic bomb justified?" I can only say I did not have to make the call to use it.

Journey to Topaz, by by Yoshiko Uchida--Again, this book brought about much discussion. It is the story of a Japanese American girl living in California. She and her family are taken to internment camps because the Government viewed all Asians as a threat to the country. Once again, I am glad that I did not have to make this call. It is sickening how one group of American citizens could do this to one another...and yet we do it in our own ways each and every day.

War, Peace, and All That Jazz--By Joy Hakim--This book was definitely not a favorite! I am not a textbook learner and from a liberal perspective at that! Yucky! I have come to determine that the 60's and 70's were some of the worst years in history. Period.

The Obstinate Land, by Harold Keith--I would never want to be a pioneer, but I have great respect for them. This book followed one fictional family going into Oklahoma territory to settle their own land....and all of the ups and many downs they experienced. What I liked most about this book was I found out what a "sooner" is.

The House of Sixty Fathers, by Meindert Dejong-- I finished this today, but I am counting it. This book takes place during the Japanese invasion of China and the story of a little boy who gets separated from his Chinese parents. I never really knew just how much Japan was of an aggressor, but through this book and many others I have read, I have learned. However, you cannot fault all Japanese just because of their Imperialistic and Fascist Government.

The House of the Seven Gables, by Nathaniel Hawthorne-- After reading The Scarlet Letter, I wanted to read more from the author. This book was very interesting, albeit confusing at times. It's about a family who believe the are cursed, but there isn't anything to it. I would definitely recommend it, though it isn't too lighthearted.

Love's Unfolding Dream, by Janette Oke-- Finally, a happy book! I don't like to get ahead of where the movies are, but I chose to this time. It was a nice and easy, feel good book in the midst of all the depressing material! Now, for the movie in May.....

Happy reading to you all! Books are wonderful, aren't they?!

My Family's Recommendation of 26 Good "Old" Movies for Your Viewing Pleasure

After much discussion with family and friends, I have opted to give y'all some of my family's movie night finds. I know I just listed a few of them, but I wanted to go all out this time. After all, I know it is so hard to find decent movies for the whole family to watch without the need of the remote. I want you to know that every single one of these listed is absolutely fine: no sexual elements, no language, nothing explicit...it's refreshing. I hope you find some that you haven't watched before and that you enjoy them like my family does. Movie nights are wonderful times at our house! And oftentimes, good discussions come as a result of what we have viewed.





Drama/War/Westerns


The Treasure of Sierra Madre (1948)--This is, in my opinion, Humphrey Bogart's best acting job. You really see what greed does to people.


Key Largo (1948)--Nothing much to say, except that it's good


Dark Passage (1947)--Our favorite of the movies Bogart and Lauren Bacall did together.


Mr. Smith Goes to Washington (1939)--An eye opening story of what most likely goes on in the government.


The Bridges at Toko-Ri (1954)--We have all heard of the honor of World War II veterans. This brings it to life.*


Sergeant York (1941)--Alvin York, a man of character


Pride of the Yankees (1942)--Oh to live in the days when sports people were men of honor...instead of overpaid steroid users.


Gaslight (1944)--suspenseful, but not too spooky


Spellbound (1945)--okay, more spooky than Gaslight, the first time you watch it. But no worries, it's not that bad =)


The Bridge on the River Kwai (1957)--for Garrett's sake, I am doing this. The rest of us find it too depressing..WWII movie.


The Desperate Hours (1955)--Would you like your family held hostage by Humphrey Bogart?


High Noon (1952)--Hard to decide what I want to say


3:10 to Yuma (1957)--The old one with Glenn Ford and Van Heflin...not Russell Crowe and Christian Bale





Comedy/Romantic Comedy/Musicals

Sabrina (1954)--The one with Audrey Hepburn....It is so cute!

You Can't Take it With You (1938)--a sweet, lighthearted, funny movie. Garrett and I love this one.


The Shop Around the Corner (1940)--It was the first "You've Got Mail." I will just stick with and watch this one, thank you very much.


Mr. Deeds Goes to Town (1936)--Say we want a movie on a Thursday or something (movie night is on Saturday), just suggest this one, and Mom is all for it---she loves it! Gary Cooper is her favorite.


Arsenic and Old Lace (1944)--Cary Grant is bound to leave you in stitches with this one.

My Favorite Wife (1940)--Cary Grant goes from one wife, to two, to none, to one....it's funny!

The Devil and Miss Jones (1941)--Don't freak out with the title. It is only about a man with a devilish temper. It's quite cute actually.


Shall We Dance (1937)--Again, it's the old one with Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers. Oh, I love musicals and with Gershwin's music....what more could you ask for?


Seven Brides For Seven Brothers (1954)--Who doesn't like this movie?


The Philadelphia Story (1940)--Absolutely cute


High Society (1956)--My most recent acquisition. It's the musical version of "The Philadelphia Story" and I am a sucker for musicals


Sound of Music (1965)--a Mother's Day tradition


Harvey (1950)--Do you have a pet rabbit?!


(I hope you all enjoy these. The asterisk on The Bridges at Toko-Ri was because of a scene where there is a communal bathhouse. You don't see anything, I promise. It borders on funny.)

Cleaning Clutter Really Does Simplify Stress!

I am trying to make the most of spring break. While I am being a backslider and not setting the alarm clock, I still try to do history every day (which isn't going like I wanted it to.=) I also felt that I needed to declutter, which is hard for me as I am a pack rat....and not afraid to admit it too! Mom has been after me to get my desk space clean (and she has often stated that there is no room in the craft room to do much walking around.) Well, I finally listened to her good and sound advice, for this week I decided to do it.I sure wish I had a before photo! It looked like a cyclone had ripped its way across my desk! Now, all of my HopeChest Magazine work is filed and put away (instead of sitting on top) Golly, I could even put a bouquet of fake flowers on here!

Okay, so maybe the craft room still looks messy=) I will just say it was a lot worse. My sewing baskets were on the floor blocking the access to certain things. Fabric was not organized and just on the floor. Now it is...
Neatly put away in drawers, all of it organized and has some semblance of rhyme and reason. (You know, like interfacing in one place; good scraps in another; etc.)

I realize just how essential order and neatness is. It is something that I want to carry over into my future household someday. I want my home to be a haven--and a relatively neat one at that. After all, my Lord is a God of order; He desires me to be that way as well. Besides, you feel like you have accomplished something important when all is said and done!

Buried Alive

I am not an overly outdoorsy person. Sure I enjoy going rafting down the Boise River, or tending my rose bushes, or taking walks on the Greenbelt, but that is as far as it goes. I am not the person who does many active sports, or is more at home outside than inside. But regardless of this fact, earlier last week you would have found me pulling up last year’s dead growth in preparation for a new harvest of fruit, vegetables, and flowers. While doing so, I was surprised to locate green growth lying beneath that dreary brown; it was just waiting for my hand to reveal it to the world. Once again in creation, the Lord showed me a spiritual lesson, and I wanted to share it with you.

Our lives are full of green growth. In our talents, our spiritual gifts, and countless other ways, we have the opportunity to share the joys and beauty of a life for Christ. Granted, like with typical plants, we have our share of blights, bugs, and general nastiness….but that doesn’t stop us from being lovely in Christ’s sight. We have only to tear our dead growth away.

Our brown can take on many forms. It can be in the form of fears; we are too worried about what the world will say that we don’t show it. The brown can be the past; we have been hurt so much to the point that we do not want to get involved anymore. We can be deadened and unaware of our God’s gifts so we don’t use them period.

It is hard to remove the brown and make the green visible. We get dirty, needles get in our hands, our strength gets taxed and our muscles tighten. But in the end, we realize of how much worth the pain was. The same is true in our personal lives, even though the difficulties and dirt might be ten times harder.

Do not let your light shine under a bushel! God has given each of us a special gift to use for Him….and He wants it shared with the world!

The Ending of Good Friday Brought Dark Saturday

The story of Christ's crucifixion always brings tears to my eyes. I wasn't one of those that watched The Passion when it came out, but still, I can count on every viewing of Jesus of Nazareth to weep. Perhaps it is because I have gotten older, but every year, the significance of what my Lord and Savior did at Calvary becomes more and more meaningful.



Today I was reading my Bible the story of Good Friday as told by Matthew, Mark, and Luke. This verse in each of the books jumped off the page at me: "As they were on the way, they came across a man named Simon, who was from Cyrene, And they forced him to carry Jesus' cross." My name might just as well have been there instead of Simon's. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that Christ bore Golgotha and all its horrors, its pains, the mockery, the humiliation for ME! He died so that I might live with Him forever in Paradise. Jesus did not look forward to the pain ("My Father! If it is possible, let this cup of suffering be taken from Me! Yet not My will, but Yours be done.") but He followed through with it. I do not believe I would have, even for the sake of humanity. I do not chose pain; indeed, I struggle with petty things that pale in light of what Christ did.



When sunset comes and tomorrow breaks, we know the end of the "Easter story." However, I cannot begin to imagine what it was like for the disciples. They had walked with Christ; they knew that He was the Son of God. But aside from Lazarus, death was final to them. There was no "coming back from the after life." And besides, the one who had raised a dead man was now in the same state. Who was going to raise Him? Peter, James, John didn't have those special, God-given powers. I imagine that it was a time of lost hope and questioning for them. The world was dark without their Lord walking with them and talking to them.



We have so much to be thankful for, my sisters. Christ did not stay dead! The darkness is gone! This world, yes, is full of sin, strife, and looks hopeless. But with the conquering of the grave, their is a bright light, a Holy and Awesome one, at the end. But just as we can't experience spring without winter, the thanks we sing would not be as glorious if Calvary had not been experienced.



Thank you, Father, for taking what was mine. You are so good to me. I am a great sinner, but thanks to the cross, You are a great Savior and became mine. May I always count the cost of You sacrifice; may I never take it lightly. And may I always praise you, my Redeemer.

Honor and Commitment

Honor--in my edition of Webster's Dictionary it is defined as "a keen sense of ethical conduct." It is a word that does not have much standing today; in many ways, it is a word of bygone days. No one lives by ethics and commitment anymore. "Whatever feels good, do it! " or "that's okay if you are in love with that woman but married to another: ditch your wife, after all, your feelings for each other pale in comparison to this new passion." can be just two of the ways that honor is thrown out the window.

This lack of trueness to purpose, commitment of spouses, etc. can be very difficult at times. If you are like me, it just gives one more reason for wanting the Regency Era back again :-) However, my family has found that honor did exist at one time---and believe it or not---in Hollywood, the location where you would least find it now.

Listed below are some movies my family and I have viewed (that are entirely decent) and present a manner of honor to the viewer. If you think one interests you, I would encourage you to check it out from the library. You will not be displeased. Also, I believe you will again come away with the "rebelutionary" feeling that by "doing hard things" (striving in just your small world and surroundings) we can bring honor back from the ashes and make it vibrant once more!

Casablanca--(Perhaps you have seen this one, or just have heard the famous line "play it Sam." Rick and Ilsa still are in love with each other after years apart, but Rick knows where Ilsa needs to go...and so does she.*)

The Country Girl--(In the quest to help her husband get rid of his alcoholism, Georgie and Bernie, who is also helping her husband, fall in love. Frank, the husband, realizes how miserable he has made Georgie and offers to let her go. But she knows where her place is and that is with her husband.*)

The Best Years of our Lives--(Coming home from WWII, a solider finds that his wife cares little for him...besides his uniform. In the midst of this, a young woman and a family friend helps the soldier get over his trauma and they fall in love. However, he will stay with his wife, but when his wife leaves him....well.....*)

Roman Holiday--(Okay, everyone knows this one, Princess Anne and Joe Bradley fall in love while she is incognito in Rome. But honor and duty prevail, and she returns to her job as princess.)

*The asterisk mean that there is one scene a piece where the two characters who aren't supposed to kiss, but watch the movie, and you will see how it all progresses to where it should be.

I Have Been Tagged....for the Upteenth Time!!!

I can not tell you how many times I have been tagged. Erin has done it; so has Kaysie, so has Sydney.....forgive me if I left you out! Anyway, I thought I would go ahead and do it lest I get tagged anymore. Listed below are seven things you might or might not have known about me.

1.) I love to read aloud. It drives my family nuts, though. Consequently, I do all of my school and pleasure reading in my room. (Unless it is a book that I really can't stand.) It is hard to explain why I am like this. It helps me remember things better....and I have an excuse to do character voices.

2.) I am a girly girl who has a sports side. For my birthday, I received the Boise State Broncos Documentary and a shirt. I also have two fantasy baseball teams.

3.) I am always listening to something. Whether I am in the kitchen, or dusting, or on the computer, you can usually find Adventures in Odyssey, Contemporary Christian music, or movie soundtracks playing. (Today it was Emma)

4.) I have never met any of my dearest friends in person. The Lord brought them to me via e-mail and blogs....and allowed them to be all over the country. Ranging from the South, to the Northeast, to the Midwest.

5.) I do enjoy going out to eat when I can. My favorites are Macaroni Grill, El Tenampa, Red Robin (burger place) Panda Express, and Cottage Expressions (the tea room with my Mom)

6.) When I was 10, I broke my arm falling off an above ground swimming pool. I had a compound fracture, breaking through the skin. It required surgery (before which I was petrified that I would not wake up from the anesthetic) I had a metal rod in my arm for two months. And now, all I have is the scars to prove it.....though the rod is around here somewhere.

7.) I used to want to be a flower designer when I grew up. Now, I will take a wife and mother role when God gives it to me!

Well, I don't know wo is left to tag! I will do Alice, Jessica, and Megan!

God bless you even in the midst of this nonsensical post!

My Rating: Humbleness

No matter what I set out to do, the Lord has a tendency to turn it into an opportunity to learn something. It can be a new lesson, or it can be something that I have learned so many times, and yet need a fresh reminder of. It was the latter that was true of me the past few days.

I was prepared as I could have been for the piano festival. I was a little too close for comfort in getting them memorizing. And like always, I suffer from an immense case of nervousness. However, I also was looking forward to my playing; I was intrigued to find out how my final year would go. Let’s just say now how I wish my attitude had been different.

I did my best; I got through my pieces without the noticeable errors from the recital the week before. I thought I did very well. But I do not believe my judge thought so. I had to play a part over again in Mozart. I was corrected afterwards for play the piece how it was written. It was very difficult to take all this…but I didn’t cry until afterwards. Even then, my tears were about how I felt that I was compared to a concert pianist and I didn’t like that at all.

Like I had to go through last year, the Lord was about to take me down the path of accepting how I did. I knew that I had done my best and that I had tried to glorify God in my performance. However, was I going to be content with a lesser rating. After all, I had had “superiors,” the highest, for every single year that I had done the festival. Would I be okay with final year getting less than that—even if I had done what I thought was a top performance?

The days afterwards were filled with this question. Saturday found me thinking over multiple times the mistakes I had and the strong points that I had. I kept agonizing over everything! It was terrible, but you know, I still have some problems accepting the fact that I might get less of a good thing.

The Lord has never demanded of me that I get the highest rating at the festival, or that I become a concert pianist playing Mozart like he was primary level. He wants me to do my very best and leave it at that. A Superior Rating will fade away in time.

I still do not know what my actual rating is; I have been giving pure speculation. However, I do know what I have learned beyond the wrong phrasing, the missed notes, etc: I have learned once again that I suffer from pride. I want to appear that I have it all together; in the end, I prove that I don’t. God has work to do in me, yet He who is faithful to begin the work will be faithful to complete it!

The Dawning of Spring

In November the snow starts to fly
Piling up ankle high;
By December it’s up to your knees
Still a bride’s a bride to be;
January higher still
To the parlor windowsill;
February finds the drift
And a storm that seems never to lift;
March comes in like a lion, what else
Still the snow never melts;
April showers may come, so they say
But they don’t, and it’s May;
You’re about to forget the whole thing
All at once, one day it’s spring.

Here in Idaho, this beloved song from Seven Brides For Seven Brothers is a rather big exaggeration. We never get this much snow here. In fact, it is currently all off the ground here in the valley. The mountains and ski resorts still have the fluffy white powder, but barring any major storm, they have seen the last of snow.

The in between stage of winter and spring is some of the most difficult in all the world. The earth lays under a blanket of dreariness and gray. The grass is not the vibrant green, flowers are not in bloom, tree boughs lay barren and devoid of blossoms and leaves. When we are surrounded by this for so long, we can despair of spring’s arrival. At times, we can feel that this is the year when spring will not make its appearance.

The same is true in life. We can feel as if everything is only shadow and gloom. Things do not ever look like they will ever get better; we experience one crisis after another: family difficulties, friendship problems, church and health issues…I know you all can relate. This past year, I have had many times of believing that my “winter” in life would stay forever.

While discussing the soon…hopefully…arrival of spring, Mom said she once read that “one can never appreciate spring until one has experienced the winter.” I realize how true that is. I would have to confess that if the lilacs, daffodils, and baby animals were constant occurrences in life, I would not think of them as highly as I do. I would take them for granted. And I cannot believe I am saying this, but if my life was only ups, and never downs, triumphs, but never any trials, I would not be the person who I am today.

Winters aren’t all bad. We can make snowballs, have hot chocolate, and bundle up in warm blankets. Our wintry days and emotions are the same way. We often find God in so many ways that we are more often to forget otherwise. We find out how our true friends are. And in the end, when God does bring our spring, and he ALWAYS does, we look back and realize how much the winter meant to us.

So, I want to encourage you. Whether you live in a state firmly in winter’s grasp and are in the wintry days of emotional turmoil, the time will come when spring will dawn. It will be positively radiant and we shall see spring’s blessings in a whole new light!

February's Reading List

My dear friends, Anna and Miriam, give their reading lists from the past month. It is a fabulous way to know what one has read, and it gives someone ideas to either check for on their library visits or an idea to buy from a favorite bookstore. I thought I would share my month's reading with you.

Northanger Abbey, by Jane Austen--I am a definite fan of Miss Austen's works. When PBS aired their Masterpiece Theatre, it inspired me to get out a new volume. And while the movie adaption bordered on let-down, the book was a nice read. Not my favorite of her novels, but it was enjoyed.

The Redemption of Sarah Cain, by Beverly Lewis--Watching a commerical for director Michael Landon Jr.'s latest movie, I thought that reading the book first would be a good way to go. It follows the life of Sarah, who becomes guardian to her five Amish nieces and nephews. Sarah learns to forget the past and embrace the future. It was a sweet book. If only my hold for the movie would come in at the library....!

The Inheritance, by Louisa May Alcott--I thought I had read almost all of Miss Alcott's works...I guess I was wrong. This was a delightful (though short) book of love, purity, womanhood, betrayal, and secrets. My mom read it and enjoyed it too. The ending is...well... almost predictable, but I like that sometimes!

I Kissed Dating Good-bye, by Joshua Harris--I began this book back in April of 2007, but since I did the study guide with it, it took me a while, or I made it so. Even though I was always on the path of leaving the dating game, this book reaffirmed that in so many ways. It has helped me see the importance of my single years and trusting my own wonderful love story over to the Author and Screenwriter of my life--Jesus Christ. If you haven't read it, you should!

The Scarlet Letter, by Nathaniel Hawthorne--Yes, I finished it! I enjoyed Mr. Hawthorne's writing immensely. The tale was convicting and yet enjoyable! Definitely pick this up! (Though it can be difficult at times when it reads like the KJV.)

The Story of the Trapp Family Singers, by Maria Augusta Trapp--I had read this book once before, but now it was school reading. It is nice to know what happened after "The Sound of Music," but I will confess, I enjoy the movie much more!

The Hiding Place, by Corrie Ten Boom--Another book I had read once before, yet I enjoyed it just as much the second time. It seems odd to say I "enjoyed" it, but through Corrie and Betsie's struggles, you could see God in the ways they did!

Victory in the Pacific, by Albert Marrin--Can anyone tell what time period I am studying in school? Yes, WWII. This textbook isn't as dry as some that I have read, and indeed, it helped me know more about the "other war." However, I will take the Civil War=)

What I am finishing up...or reading currently
The House of the Seven Gables, by Nathaniel Hawthorne
Hiroshima, by John Hersey

Happy reading!

A Musician's Prayer and How It Relates to Me

Lord, please bless my music

May it touch the heart of one's soul

May using it to glorify You

Always be my goal

Let it be a constant reminder

Of the power of Your love

And remind us that You're always

Watching from above

May others see the beauty

In every note they hear

And when they hear my music

May they feel Your presence near

Lord I ask for your guidance

In all that I do

And pray that You'll make my music

An instrument for you!

This is the cry of my heart right now. Tomorrow night, I will do what I have done for the past seven years. I have my annual festival/competition. The music I have worked on faithfully....and yes, with tears and poundings of frustration......will now be put to the test. I am not new to the feelings of nervousness and running the music over and over in my head. I am also aware that spiritual lessons often come as a result of this. However, I do love this event every year. I am sad that it shall be my last. More than anything, I long for this year to be an amazing one. Beyond the fact that I am playing on a baby grand in a nice dress, or that the music I will be playing is the hardest I have done. (Or if I can make it all the way through my pieces again:-) The Lord has shown me these past few years the opportunity I have to glorify Him with my music, even if it isn't hymns. If I do my best, and leave the results up to Him, that is all He asks of me. Thinking this way isn't always easy for me, but I am resolved to do my best!

I would greatly covet your prayers tomorrow night! There is so much to remember in both the music and theory realm, I do not want to be so caught up in it that I lose my primary focus of giving God the glory. He alone has enabled me to play!

Soli Deo Gloria!

Lessons in the Grocery Store

It has to be done. If we didn't, our families would starve. Even then, going grocery shopping isn't something we consider fun. Reading labels, noticing the different prices per ounce, all of these things are good skills that are necessary to being a homemaker. And just watch, you will never guess how many life lessons you will find at the grocery store! Here were my observations from my trip with Mom on Saturday.



~~Everyone complains about our obese society. The news constantly has blurbs on the news about it, Dr. Phil and Oprah are telling people how to lose the pound, diet books always seeming to be on the New York Times Best-Seller lists, and yet, the majority of Americans are obese. But you know, look in peoples' carts and you will find out why! Processed foods, fried foods, sugared foods, frozen foods.....there is your answer! I am so blessed that my mom has tried to instill in me healthy eating habits. I don't do it all the time, but it is definitely the norm!~~

~~Kids still need to be disciplined even while grocery shopping. You have them darting around carts and aisles, all the while wearing those annoying roller shoes (that will cause somebody one day to get seriously hurt or killed....or another person.....then imagine the lawsuit!) When I have children of my own, I intend to keep them close to the cart. And then, they will be courteous and respectful of others. I don't anticipate saints, but I do want them to be a light for Christ.~~

~~Buy in bulk when you can. Our grocery store here has a bulk foods section where you can get flour, sugar, pasta, spices, etc. for a fraction of the cost. It helps cut down on the grocery bill~~

I know I had more than that, but one belongs in its own post. Let me know what you find when you make your next trip to the grocery store! Happy shopping!

Miss Perfection and Piano Recitals

I am being quite honest with you. Despite the fact that I know that I need to change, I have continued to remain a perfectionist for several years of my life. I am the person who wants to get an "A" average before she has barely studied the subject. I "think" that I need to get a piece of music, a skill, a sewing project, absolutely PERFECT when I haven't even tried it yet. I have improved....some....but it takes a mess up to remind me that I still am human.

Last night, I had my piano recital. After months of practicing, and weeks of crammed memorization, I got to play George Gershwin's "Prelude No. 2" and Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart's "Sonatina in C Major, Andante." Once piece I love; the other, well, Mrs. W. has helped me to live with. Each piece is different (they should be: one was written in the Classical Period, the other the Modern Period.) but that doesn't bother me.

I was confident; but at other times, not so much. When you have weird notes, and everything has to be memorized, you are bound to have some fuzzy parts. Which is okay....but not necessarily at a recital. Well, I went into last night feeling confident of Gershwin and okay with Mozart. I listen to all the other students; I had the "honor" of going last. I go up to the piano, my hands are shaking, a prayer in my heart.

Well, if you weren't there, it is hard for me to describe what happened. Let's just say I had more fuzzy parts than I would have liked. However, I made it all the way through without needing my books; in the midst of my mistakes, I didn't let them faze me and instead got to where I needed to be. I also didn't cry and for me, that is a BIG thing. I also gave a speech about my teacher, which God said through me.

It might not seem like this incident was a major occurrence. Little mistakes aren't bad, right? Well, for me, they can be. After all, I am Miss Perfectionist. Yet I will say that I have grown in my walk with the Lord. I know enough to know that He doesn't demand perfection of me. If He did, there would be no reason for His coming to Earth. I am the one who demands perfection, and really, it isn't all that it is cracked up to be. Last night showed me I am improving....and that practicing a little more wouldn't hurt a bit!

Blessed Beyond Measure

I want to thank you all for this past week. I have felt extremely blessed with all the sweet comments, letters, phone calls, and packages in celebrating my birthday. God clearly has given some wonderful people in my life--and I cannot praise Him enough.

Also this week, I have discovered a peace that TRULY passes all understanding. I cannot even begin to describe it; indeed, it is what it is. It goes back to my church situation. Right now, the church we have been trying wouldn't be called my "home," but I have been fed and encouraged these past two weeks. I have found myself weeping and saying, "How Great is My God!"

Things aren't instantly better. I feel sad at times, confused at times, even bitter at how the whole past came about at times. But you know, I once more recognize the Awesome God I serve; I am reminded ever more of His Great Faithfulness. These "hard things" in my life are NOT what I would choose, yet nor would I choose to be without them either.

I have felt like singing these past few days. For "how can I keep from singing His praise. I want to sing in the troubled times; I want to sing when I win. I want to sing when I lose my steps and come to Him in prayer. I can sing, because He hears me. I know I am loved by the King and it makes my heart want to sing."

More than ever, I see the beauty in leaving a situation in God's hands. When I turn my problems over to Him (whether they be about friends, church, life in general) I have to be prepared to stand amazed...because that is just what I will be. May you all be too!

On Valentine's Day

I do not know you, my darling

Or if you are in my life.

Though on this day, I will confess,

I wonder about being your wife

People are flocking to the stores

Men and women pass me by

Flowers and candy are bought

Despite the prices oh so high

Cards are flying off the shelves

Praising a "significant someone"

While I, on the other hand,

Receive not a one.

God, by His grace, is keeping me

Along the straight and narrow.

I am reminded that difficulty comes

But joy will arrive on the morrow

Being one of the few without a beau

Certainly isn't easy
The world screams at me, "You're nuts!

Your love life is measly!"

I am aiming though for something higher

A love that is so true

It's a story of God's greatness that I want

Something only He could do

May the gift I give you right now be

A life of modesty

A servant's heart, a sister's love

An example of purity.

No matter how long it takes

I'm committed to waiting on God

I will not seek to be your girl

Until I get His confirming nod

Lord, you have read my heart. May you always be my first love. And may you keep me true to my future spouse until the day I say, "I do."

My 18th Birthday

Today is my 18th birthday. Lest you ask me, I will say right now that I do not feel any older, I don't look any older, and that is okay with me! By now, you can assume what is coming next. You now have the pleasure of getting to know more about me. Perhaps you will discover something you never knew before. So far, I haven't done anything special, but everything awaits this evening. Thank you all for reading my thoughts and being a blessing in my life! Soli Deo Gloria!

Favorite Food: Chicken and Nuggies..."Garrett's favorite too"

Favorite Color: Sky Blue and Pastel Pink

Favorite Music Group: Steven Curtis Chapman and Celtic Woman

Favorite Movie: "WAY TOO HARD!!! So, I will break it down :-)"

Favorite Musical: Seven Brides for Seven Brothers

Favorite Girly Movie: "I will not even attempt to break that down :-) I mean, there is Wives and Daughters, Emma, Sense and Sensibility, Pride and Prejudice."

Favorite Adventure Movie: National Treasure

Favorite Old Movie: "Basically anything with Humphrey Bogart or Jimmy Stewart

Favorite Fiction Book: "WAY TOO COMPLICATED AGAIN! Anything by Jane Austen, Louisa May Alcott, or Martha Finley"

Favorite Non-Fiction Book: So Much More, by Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin

Favorite thing to do: Read, bake, play the piano, write, spend time with my family, watch old movies

Favorite Sport to Watch: Golf "believe it or not," gymnastics, and college football

Favorite College Football team: Boise State Broncos

Favorite Baseball team: "Hard to say now. Probably the Dodgers."

Favorite Football team: Indianapolis Colts "though I can go NY Giants now too."

Favorite Family Vacation: "Yellowstone any time we go. I also loved Clearwater Beach in 1996"

Favorite Thing we Do as A Family: "The spontaneous things;-)"

Favorite Book of the Bible: Ruth and Philippians

Favorite Restaurant: El Tenampa (local Mexican) and Macaroni Grill "though what I wouldn't give for Panera Bread"

Favorite Type of Tea: Candy Cane Lane or South African Honeybush

Favorite Animal: "Our precious beagle, Nikki"

One Place I Want to Visit Before I Die: Washington D.C. "You should see me when movies take place there. I get wide eyed!"

Favorite Ice Cream Flavor: Tillamook's Lemon Pound Cake, but since I don't get that very often, I will take a peanut butter sundae

Favorite Flower: Roses and Lilacs

The most Quirky thing I do: Give the running commentary during movies. "It drives my family crazy!"

And I can't believe I am putting it...The Most Embarrassing Thing I have ever done: When I was six, I stuck a bead up my nose. It was one of those kind with a big hole. I couldn't get it out myself; I kept getting it higher. And since we were at a church family camp, an obstetrician (who was part of our group and the only doctor available) had to get it out. I didn't keep the bead, but sometimes, I wish I had for laughs!

~~The Pictures are past birthdays...from 2004 to 2007~~

A Woman's Time?

They sat discussing voting trends and what “classes” of citizens were voting for a particular candidate. One of the men said, “the majority of young women are going for Sen. Clinton saying ‘it’s a woman’s time.” The conversation soon progressed into different territories. As for myself, I sat in my seat, silently stewing about being categorized and the overall feminist statement.

Such was the case with me last Tuesday—Super Tuesday. I already said that I remained glued to my seat, watching in wonder at who took which state. Some were surprises and others were not. It was during a lull of “issuing delegates” that I watched Tom Brokaw make this statement.

He was only reporting the facts…for the most part. Not ALL young women voters plan on voting for Sen. Clinton. However, it shouldn’t be a surprise that the bulk of my peers are the way Mr. Brokaw described. Feminism is running rampant in this day and age.

Women like Oprah, Sen. Clinton, and Nancy Pelosi (among others) all tell girls the same thing: “You are a woman, but don’t let that stop you! You are just as capable, if not more so, of taking on a man’s field and roles! Go out and change the world! Remove the shackles that our grandmothers and great-grandmothers had! And for those of you who do not agree with us, you are weird; you are our worst nightmare; you are living in the days of old."

I will say that these women are true on one score: women can go and change the world…just not in the way they suggest. Even in our churches, the fact that women and men have different roles in the Lord’s plan is mind-boggling to most. People seem to think that those who embrace this way of thinking sit around and do nothing for themselves; they aren’t allowed to think and they are domineered by their husbands, almost like slaves and masters. Another wrong misconception!

God created women to be different. Anyone who says otherwise isn’t paying attention to the Word of God. But it doesn’t have to be a bad thing! We can be so much more than what Feminist society has relegated us to. Truly, where is the joy in taking on a man’s role and yet forsaking what the Lord intended before the beginning of time?

Perhaps it is a “woman’s time….” It’s time to take this world back from the Feminists and instead, we are to get the focus back on God and His original design? I cannot begin to imagine a world in which women embrace their God-given roles once mores. Being a wife and a mother is still a way to “rock the world” and I would love to be able to say to my granddaughter, “It was my generation that helped put the Lord back in the picture of this country.”

To be honest, I do not care if I see a woman become president—but to see femininity and Biblical Womanhood rise up once more in the United States again—that I do not want to miss!

The Power of Prayer and Mike Huckabee

What if His people prayed

And those who bear His name

Would humbly seek His face

And turn from their own way

And what would happen if we prayed

For those raised up to lead the way

Then maybe kids in school could pray

And unborn children see light of day

What if the life that we pursue

Came from a hunger for the truth

What if the family turned to Jesus

Stopped asking Oprah what to do

~~Casting Crown's "What if His People Prayed"

Last night, for as long as I could be, I was glued to the tv screen. We all know it was Super Tuesday. I found myself being envious of those who could be a part of the whole process, while I had to sit and watch. (My Republican primary isn't until May.) What I beheld amazed me.

I was surprised at the showing of Mike Huckabee. I have had a doubt every now and then about him, but it you asked me who would I vote for, I would say him. He appears to stand for the things I do. But electibility.....that's a whole different story! But last night, the Lord showed me that anything is possible. I watched as Gov. Huckabee took Alabama, Arkansas, Georgia, West Virginia....and the political gurus couldn't explain it. However, I know someone who can....

In 2 Chronicles 7:14, we read, "If my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, I will hear from Heaven and will heal their land." Whether or not you go as far as my family does by saying our country is about to be inflicted with God's judgment, perhaps you will agree that revival is needed desperately in this wonderful nation. I have felt this for several years and every day, you can find my prayers having the United States mentioned in them. I ask that a godly leader would rise up and honor God in leadership.

Gov. Huckabee is not perfect, but God also says He will honor those who honor him. When I watch Mike on tv, I find him being respectful....even to the point of getting shouted down by Gov. Romney =) Perhaps there is more to the Huckabee campaign than we realize or can see at this point. After all, "it isn't the size of the dog in the fight; it's the size of the fight in the dog." (Dwight D. Eisenhower said that, but more in my memory, Thom Brennamen regarding the Boise State Broncos 2007 Fiesta Bowl appearance. :-)

I happen to pick underdogs. Golly, my family was one of the few who rooted for Eli Manning and the New York Giants to beat Tom Brady's undefeated New England Patriots in the Super Bowl. (Don't worry, we don't watch commericals or half time!) No one said the little guy could do it, but they did. The same can be true of politics. If God wants Gov. Huckabee, there is no stopping Him! A little prayer can go a long way!

Note~~This post is not to argue about which candidate you/your family likes for president. I would enjoy knowing your thoughts....but don't think about leaving a rude comment. Mom is my moderator!~~

Blogging With a Purpose Award

I never believe myself deserving of the blog awards I receive. However, my dear friend, Kaysie, has awarded me the "blogging with a purpose" award. My fervent hope and prayer is that my blog does exemplify a purpose--of giving God all the glory in EVERY situation we find ourselves in.

It is typical when you get the award to pass it on to five other people who haven't received it already. That is a hard task, but here are mine (and I don't want to offend anybody!)...

1.) Alice--Consecrated Life

2.) Anna and Miriam--Maidens of Worth

3.) Erin--ModesTeen

4.) Jessica--The Beauty of Home

5.) Mrs. Beverly--The Girl Inside

Thank you so much, Kaysie, for giving me this award. I am so appreciative to the Lord for you and for the opportunity to use this blog for Him!

I Love it! I Really Love it!

Friends can be wonderful. They can grow us, encourage us, and do things for us. When God blesses us with truly like-minded sisters, it is an amazing thing. After a couple years of walking more or less alone, the Lord has given me a couple...they are all different and yet each is special.

Well, Erin is one of those. She has designed this wonderful template for me. I loved my rose one, but this is more "me." (Red roses are kind of romantic, and while I am a romantic, I don't want my blog to send a wrong message.) When Erin approached me about doing a template for me (so she can perhaps gain some business for her blog business) I was totally exicted. I have gotten to add some special features.

**You can click on "About Me" and get a better profile look into my life
**Though it is still under construction, you will see a reading list about my recommended fiction and non-fiction books
**My "Titles" are in pretty script

So, Erin, thank you! Thank you! Thank you! You did a fabulous job. I am so blessed that you did this for me...and for your friendship!

Happy Birthday, Mom!

My parents have birthdays two days apart. Sometimes, we all wish it wasn't that way, but that is the way it is! Today it is Mom's turn. I still won't tell you how old, but she s older than she looks too! =) Once more, I want a place that says how much I honor my parents. I also want you, my wonderful readers, to know the people that make up my family. So, here are Mom's favorites!

Favorite Color: purple

Favorite food: fried shrimp "I know that it is one of the worst things you can eat. The Lord was wise when he advised against eating them...but I do enjoy it."

Favorite Restaurant: Miabi's Japanese Steak House "but it's out of business now"

Favorite Type of Tea: Earl Grey

Favorite Book: "Fiction is Little Women. Non-Fiction would be Bound For Glory, by R.C. Sproul Jr."

Favorite Movie: "Too hard...there are many good ones. It would be a toss up between The Sound of Music and Wives and Daughters"

Favorite Thing to Do: "Family time--camping, playing games, watching old movies, sightseeing."

Favorite Memory of Me and You: "The day you were born and I found out that you were a girl--something I had been wanting."

Favorite Family of Vacation: "Great Smoky Mountain National Park in 1998 and Yellowstone every time we go."

Favorite Flower: Hydrangea

Favorite Book of the Bible: Ruth, Genesis, and James

Favorite Music: Classical Composers

Favorite Animal: "Our 13 inch beagle, Nikki

Favorite Ice Cream Flavor: Lemon Pound Cake from Tilamook, Oregon

Happy Birthday, Mom! I am so thankful that you are my mom. I pray that the Lord blesses you an a mighty and amazing way this day and this year! I am so glad that you are my mom!

I just wanted to post a picture of Mom's birthday cake. It is white cake, with a lemon-coconut filling and a whipped cream frosting. Yes, we ate some last night, but Dad's birthday was Friday....so, call it a dual birthday party a day early!

Happy Birthday, Dad!

Today is my dad's birthday. I won't tell you how old =) but to me, his age is older than his looks. Anyway, I am so thankful for my dad today. Like I did with Garrett, I want you all to catch a glimpse into the favorites of each of my family members. So, here you go!

Favorite Color - Hunter Green

Favorite Food - Lasagna

Favorite Movie - The African Queen (with Humphrey Bogart)

Favorite Book -" Was not really a very good reader. I did like the Left Behind books along with the book about Payne Stewart. "

Favorite Music - Phillips, Craig and Dean "who else is there.... "

Favorite Family Vacation - "That is too hard...All of them have been my favorite...Each one holds a special memory of being with my family."

Favorite thing to do - "I would probably have to say that other than being with my family it would have to be working with wood. It helps me relax."

Favorite wood - "Split between Amboyna Burl and Extremely Curly Koa."

Favorite Sports team - "Baseball - Boston Red Sox , College Football - Florida Gators , Pro-football - don't have one now"

Favorite memory of me and you - "all of the time spent together are special moments. Getting cheesecake after competition. Going to your piano competition. Going to the movies. Watching you grow into the person you have become. Following you on a horse for the first time. Seeing you catch your first fish. They are all favorites."

Favorite book of the Bible - "To be honest I don't have one specific favorite. I've liked James, Revelation and Genesis at different times."

Favorite things we do as a family - "Spend time together and go on family camping trips."

Favorite Animal - "Dog specifically the Niddars."

Favorite Ice Flavor - "All of them except Rocky Road. I don't like the little marshmellows. If I had to choose only one it would have to be Heavenly Hash. And yes it has marshmellow in it but it is as a swirl and not the marshmellow chunks"

Happy Birthday, Daddy! I am so glad that you are my dad! I pray you have a blessed day!

Never Above Reproach

Reading....it is a favorite pastime of mine. It transports me to bygone eras; it teaches me new facts or unearths ones I had never known before. I try to read different genres, thus opening up many doors of knowledge and not just one.

One such area I have tried recently is biographies. I read about Rev. Peter Marshall, and I was absolutely fascinated by what I read. So, I decided to get some books from the library about a few of my favorite "old" actors and actresses. (Humphrey Bogart, Michael Landon, Audrey Hepburn, etc.) I got this with a certain sense of naivety. Of course we have the Brittany Spears, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolies, and all the others that stare at us from supermarket tabloids--as if we are interested in who is dating whom, who has who's baby--certainly my favorites aren't like that!

May I just advise keeping your simple wishful thinking and NOT wreck it. My love of reading has unearthed stories of multiple marriages, extra-marital affairs, heaving drinking and smoking...things I wish I hadn't known! I thought highly of them (in a simple sort of way) and that has come crashing down. No one is perfect; sometimes, it just takes pleasure reading to remind us of that!

Never should we put people on pedestals, regardless of how "high" it is. When we do, we find that those fellow human beings are no different than we are. In fact, perhaps slightly more "messed up." We find that these famous people take many paths that they believe will make them happy, and in the end, they are more worse off than they were before.

We who have successful families and relationships with the Lord should take heart. Okay, we might not have the looks, the big bucks, the seemingly perfect lifestyle. We have things that money cannot buy; that makes us richer than they will ever be!