When Balls Start Rolling....

I don't know about you, but I love when things happen. Good things, mind you, the kind of things that you have been working towards and praying about for the longest time. More often than not, it seems like life is a proverbial "yellow light;" we're always in a stage of waiting for the Lord to say, "Okay, things can start happening." My family is finally seeing prayer requests get answered.

For the past fourteen years, my parents have battled infertility. We have wanted more children for the longest time, but for some reason, the Lord wasn't allowing us to have any more. It wasn't anything Mom and Dad had done--God had decided that fact. Yet despite this, none of us was content with our looking like the average American family. (You know the picture, Mom, Dad, two kids, and a dog.) We wanted to be more unique than that; we wanted to increase our family.

James 1:27 talk about taking care of orphans and widows in their distress. So, what better way for us to follow God's calling than by adoption? In October, after much prayer, we decided to begin the paperwork for State adoption. (We would have loved to go international, but the cost doesn't make that feasible right now.) We began what we had to do.

For the longest time, we struggled with waiting. Mom, Dad, and myself all had to get fingerprinted, so as to ensure that we weren't some offenders or pedophiles. Mine came back quick as a flash--like I knew it would. Dad's were on the quick side too. But Mom's.......she had to get them retaken and then, we had to wait, like, six weeks on the FBI. (Did you know you can lose your fingerprints? We didn't until now.) It was so hard to wait during this time. After all, we felt like we were doing what God would have us to do. So, what was up with the "yellow light?"

I don't know the answer to that one, other than His testing us to see how we would respond. But finally, Mom's fingerprints came back. And now, balls are definitely rolling. For the next three Saturdays and the next three Wednesday evenings, Mom and Dad are going to be having classes that they have to take. We have finally been assigned a social worker. Mom and Dad have already met with her once and Lord willing, this month will also find us doing the home study.........it's all an adventure.

I long to get married and have a family of my own someday, but like I have told several of my dearest friends, I wouldn't miss these times for anything. If I was courting now, I wouldn't get to enjoy the planning and getting ready stages for another sibling; I wouldn't get to do the things with them that I hope to. I am enjoying watching this ball roll.........and yes, when it comes time for my love story to unfold, I will enjoy watching that ball roll as well.

God's time table isn't my own; it never is. I don't know why my family did not have more children before now. But I think I wouldn't get to see Him act as much if He had. So all I can do is stand is awe of Him right now, praise Him for what He has done and praying that He will continue to pave ways and make balls roll as only HE can.

February's Reading List

I am rather on the happy side----I got several books read this past month. I count it a blessing that I know how to read and that I LOVE to do it!! I have ever since I was a little girl and that carries over into now. So, you want to know what I read:

Netherfield Park Revisited, by Rebecca Ann Collins--This is Book 3 in the Pemberley Chronicles Series that I love so much. It is fun to follow the lives of Jane Austen's beloved characters, their children, and their grandchildren. This book follows the life of Jane and Bingley's son, Jonathan, the most, but everyone plays a role. Sadly, I think in book 4 many of the originals will die.....I will let you know. Honestly, if you can find them, you should read the series. It is a must for the Jane Austen fan.


Getting Serious About Getting Married, by Debbie Maken--This is not your average book for Christian singles. Actually, it is the total opposite. Mrs. Maken presents the case that singleness is NOT normal, that it is OKAY to want something more, etc. I didn't agree entirely with everything in the book, but I don't think you ever agree with something 100% (except the Bible, of course.) I would encourage you to try and find a copy of this book. I would enjoy discussing it with y'all.


Thirteen at Dinner, by Agatha Christie--I love mysteries. Now that I am older, I have outgrown the likes of Nancy Drew (she was always predictable) and am now on to the tales of Hericule Poirot (who always stumps me and I can never figure the story out.) I can ruin this mystery for you: it is the most obvious person =)


Death on the Nile, by Agatha Christie--I think I liked this one more than the one above. You have about nine characters you get to know "intimately" and the murderer is one of them.....not to mention two of the victims. The murder scenes are never graphic; you always discover them along with Hericule Poirot.


Set- Apart Femininity, by Leslie Ludy--Per my "sisters" Anna and Miriam's recommendation, I order this book via inter library loan. I was so thankful I got to finish it (since I have been sick, I was running low on time) Once again, I don't agree with everything in the book (I am on that struggles with the "if you remain single, that's just as good as being married" thing....even though Leslie doesn't exactly say that) I will say the chapter on prayer is AMAZING, definitely my favorite in the whole book. I am resolved to pray more boldly and honestly.


Mountain of Spices, by Hannah Hurnard--I loved "Hinds Feet on High Places" and I loved this lesser-known sequel to it. It follows Much-Afraid (now Grace and Glory) as she does back to the Valley and her influence on her relatives of Fearings. Sadly, I got the book from the library, so I couldn't underline. I am going to buy it so I can!!

Yes, I read all of that. I enjoyed every minute of it!

Joyful Flexibility

Agendas and schedules are made to be broken. I had so much planned for the end of last week and the beginning of this. I have HopeChest deadlines to meet, I have chores and studies that need to be done. I have thank you notes to write and e-mails to respond to (especially one in particular) But obviously, the Lord had some other things on the docket for me. He wanted me to get sick.

I hate being sick. I detest having a cough that racks my body, or keeping a handkerchief to my nose, or having chills that make me go from hot to cold just like *that*. But every year, either in January, February, or March, I seem to get a respiratory infection. It makes me feel miserable for several days, days that need to be spent more profitably than just lying around, drink tea, and watching The Walton's. I am slowly on the mend, but I don't feel up to par yet. I know I couldn't run a marathon; I still have tiredness from my body fighting off an infection (and from not getting adequate sleep because of a cough)

My days and plans are not my own. I am reminded of that all the more when I am sick. All that I am, all that I do each and every day, is because of Christ. He can "throw me a curveball" that changes my plans as often as He wants; after all, He is GOD. He expects me to be joyful about it, to buck up and bear it. He wants me to always be in a state of saying, "Okay, Lord. Whatever will be will be."

So, in the midst of the unexpected things that come up in your life this week, rest in the knowledge that Christ expected them......that He wants you to be joyfully flexible..........and everything will be okay. Your own agenda can be met another day.

A Bit of Rambling

I had a different post in store for today. However, I need some pictures for it. I mean, I could do the post without, but then you wouldn't get the full effect. So, I decided to wait and just ramble about something. It's probably not up your alley......but have you ever had that feeling you just need to get a subject off your chest (and put it on someone else's?) Well, I am in that mood right now.

Today, President Obama signed the 767 billion dollar economic stimulus package. You know the one--the one that has an exorbitant, much more so than necessary, price tag--the one that really does NOTHING to "stimulate" the economy--the one that bails companies and individuals out of their problems when they really should deal with the consequences.......yep, it is that bill.

I wasn't in favor of it before it was signed and I am not a fan of it now. I am very proud and pleased to say that my entire delegation to Washington was not in favor of it either (and one of them is a Democrat!!!!!) Congress has done what they do best....they pass measure after measure of wasteful spending and expect either the rich or future generations to foot the bill.

That bothers me. The rich should have to pay taxes, but that doesn't mean I think the poor people should be exempt. I am not into smoking, but I don't believe smokers should have to pay for children's health care coverage. And I don't believe in being so far in debt you can never get out.

I absolutely love this country, don't get me wrong. I am just having a problem with these latest economic decisions that the God-chosen leadership has made. It borders on.....um.....Socialism to me. And that isn't something to be proud of.

Okay, I got it off my chest! =) Do any of you have thoughts on this?

The Day After Valentine's

The day after Valentine's Day finds all arrangements of flowers on clearance prices....though no one seems to have a desire for them anymore. Chocolate candies and cards are either just removed from shelves or are also on discount. Reds and pinks are exchanged for the greens of St. Patrick's Day and the pale colors of Easter. Men are glad that it is another three hundred and sixty-five days until they have to worry about giving their significant other any "token of their affections." Yet in my family, the "love" is put on hold until February 15th, Mom and Dad's anniversary.

Commitment is, like, an out dated word anymore. Honestly, I would like to know the statistics of those who give flowers and say "I-Love-You's" How many are giving to the same male/female year in and year out? Or how many have a different other each Valentine's Day? For the past twenty-three years, my wonderful Mom and Dad have been husband and wife. Even though Mom doesn't really get flowers, Dad hasn't given them to anyone else in a long time.

Their legacy means a lot to me. I think it becomes even more so with each passing year, especially as I have gotten older and hope for a romance of my own. Having a success rate with them, on my mom's side (49 years and nine months), and my dad's side (55 years and nine months) is such a blessing but it also challenges me. If I had to choose between romantic happenings now and yet have a marriage that doesn't last.....or wait a few more years and have more of a legacy.....I will take the latter, despite how hard it is to hold on for God's best.

I am so thankful for Mom and Dad today. I want to thank them publicly for their years of commitment and service to each other. So it hasn't been perfect; they have had their moments of good and definitely their moments of bad. But they have something for which I long--a marriage that works.

I love you both so very much!!

Happy Birthday, Sweet Gabrielle

Today is my precious daughter's birthday, so I decided to hijack her blog today in order to write a post in her honor. However, given that I know the password to her Blogger account, I don't guess I'm really hijacking.

I'm not sure how it's possible that the sweet little six pound bundle of joy we brought home from the hospital is now nineteen years old, but the calendar says it's true. The years have positively flown by, and that sweet little baby is now a kind, beautiful, godly young woman.

I am so thankful for the precious gift God gave me in this child. She is the resident encourager of our home, always brightening our days with kind words and little acts of love. She regularly writes me encouraging notes and is always ready with a warm hug. She is the kind of person that I would easily choose as a friend, and, in fact, she IS a VERY dear friend, whom I love spending time with. She is a HUGE help to me around the house, taking on more and more responsibility all the time. (She'd actually like to cook dinner more often than twice a week, but since I love to cook as well, I'm not willing to relinquish that job to her completely.)

Even more, though, she is a young woman committed to honoring God with her life. She has been willing to stand alone on several occasions, instead of conforming to the crowd. As one who ALWAYS followed the teenage crowd, I am very proud of her willingness to not compromise Biblical truth.

On this, her 19th birthday, I just want to say how very much I love her and how very proud I am of the young lady she has become. I look forward to watching her continue to grow in the Lord in the years to come.

Happy Birthday, Gabrielle. May the Lord bless you abundantly today...and may He grant you the desires of your heart.

Love,
Mom

Though I am on Autopilot.......

This past week has been a crazy one for me. I have been taken out of my comfort zone on numerous occasions; I have had to do things your normal eighteen year old doesn't. I know what needs to be done each day and I do it to the best of my ability....but usually something comes up and interferes. I guess you could say I have been mentally exhausted.

My head has been swirling in a million different directions. It is difficult to process things like business licenses (and whether or not I even need it), 501 (c) 3's (and if you can qualify), opening accounts, writing articles, talking with absolute strangers about their subscriptions, and the all important seeking God about it all.......all at the same time. Due to everything that has come about as a result of my job with HopeChest, I have been questioning as to if I should have done this in the first place. After all, I am a follower and not a leader, someone who likes things easily understandable. None of what I am doing is.

When you have a lot to do, you usually don't function well. Or at least not with optimal results. Something is going to suffer. The fact that I have only blogged twice this month so far is one of the ways I have let things slide. Today, I find myself so thankful for the Lord Jesus Christ who is everywhere, all the time......and everything He does is perfection.

While I might be running on autopilot trying to get things done with HopeChest that need to get figured out, the Lord never runs on empty. He is always on "full," able to do everything without getting frustrated, tired, and crotchety. He can do above and beyond what my fleshy body can.

What a Mighty God I serve. What a Mighty God I serve. Angels bow before Him. Heaven and earth adore Him. What a mighty God I serve.

Thankful For......

Today, I am very thankful for some of the most unimportant things in the world. Have you ever had one of those type of days? Well, for me, I am so thankful to whoever invented electronics of all sorts. Oh sure, a lot of junk has come as a result of this technological age, but there is so much good as well.

The phone.......I got to spend a half hour with a dear friend who I have never met (face to face that is) It was her birthday, so while I called to say "Happy Birthday," we got caught up about each other's lives.

The computer.......The computer is my life line in many ways. It keeps me connected with my peers (whom I haven't met either.) I am able to jot down something quick and they will get it just as quickly. I also use the computer for my HopeChest work now; it's where my address database is.

Whitepages.com.......I can easily verify an address for someone who has less than legible handwriting.

The television.......I can watch a Biology segment that is interesting as opposed to reading a boring textbook. The TV also provides some family fun and entertainment in the form of classic movies that we discuss.

MP3 players......I can listen to all of my favorite songs without having to tote around several CDs.

Okay, so maybe this post was dumb. All I know is that I am thankful for these things today!! What is something "dumb" you are thankful for right at this moment?

January's Reading List

I hope you all managed to keep busy with having a book in your hands this past month. There is such enjoyment in being transported to other worlds; it is one of my favorite hobbies. So, here is everything I read in January.


Cinderella, by Steven Curtis Chapman--A head's up, this is a great gift to give your Dad for Father's Day (though I did mine for Christmas.) It is a short "gift book" with mostly lyrics to Steven's hit song. Mixed in are his (and a few others) memories about his daughter growing up, how he lived spending time with her, etc. It really is a sweet book!


Jane Austen for Dummies, by Joan Klingel Ray--Okay, so I don't think myself a dummy =) But I have to admit, this book was such fun to read. It broke down everything Jane Austen: her life, the times, her novels, the movie adaptations. If you wanted to know the difference between a barouche and a carriage, the book would tell you. (That was pretty random for a topic, but seriously, it has everything.) For the Jane Austen fan, it is a must read. For the not-so-much Jane Austen fan, I think it would help you have a better appreciation of her! =)


A Walk With Jane Austen, by Lori Smith--This isn't the greatest book around, but at most spots it was enjoyable. Miss Smith went on a month long journey through all of Jane Austen's haunts back in England. This book is more or less a journal of her experiences and the ramblings that went through her head.


Quo Vadis, by Henryk Sienkiewicz --I cannot recommend this over 500 page book to you. If you absolutely want to read it, I would say ages 17 and up.....and even then use your judgment. It takes place in Nero's Rome (which is where the problem lies.) Quo Vadis is the story of a Roman tribune who falls in love with Lygia, a Christian. At first, he will do anything to get her, but when he fails, he begins a journey of coming to Christianity himself. Peter and Paul are central figures in the story. However, Rome was a place of debauchery where they, like, idolized the human body. (Do I need to say more?) If the topic sounds interesting, I can TOTALLY recommend the 1951 version of the movie, starring Robert Taylor and Deborah Kerr. Because it was made in the '50s and censorship was still around, all of the junk is removed and it is a great story.


Every Now and Then, by Karen Kingsbury--Karen Kingsbury shares the honor with Brock and Bodie Thoene of being my favorite Christian fiction author. Every Now and Then is the third book in her 9/11 Series; I positively loved the first two. The story takes place eight years later, but for Alex (who lost his firefighter father) it was just like yesterday. He is closed off to everyone and has walked away from the Lord. Characters from the first two books are integral to the story of seeing him change. I sob at the ending!!!! I recommend this book with no reservations.


So, what have you been reading?

Happy Birthday, Mommy!

On my Dad's birthday post, Jessica rhetorically said, "Aren't Dads wonderful?" I have to say "YES!".......but mothers are wonderful as well =) Today, my family celebrates another year of life for my mom. I am so thankful to the Lord for her.

Having a mom who is passionate about her role as a wife and mother is a blessing--I know you all will agree. In today's society, when women are urged to do anything but "be under the shackles of home life," it is so refreshing to find someone who supports my hopes and dreams wholeheartedly.

All my mom ever wants to be is just that: a wife and a mother. That's why we are looking into State adoption. Yes, she will always be my mother, but she wants to start all over again. While I still need to talk to her about things, do things with me (like our every now and then tradition of going to tea rooms), I don't need to be dressed and bathed.....and she misses that.

Mom is the best. I can't wait for her to be a blessing to other children as she has been to me. But Mom....."I'll love you forever. I'll love you for always. As long as I'm living, my mommy you'll be."

Happy Birthday!!

Oh, this picture was taken in Yellowstone National Park in 2006.....if you wanted to know ;-)

Happy Birthday, Daddy!

Today is my Daddy's birthday. I am so thankful to the Lord for him. Most girls don't enjoy their dads and they certainly don't have a relationship with him. I'm different.

I am always discovering just how wonderful it is to have a dad. It goes beyond the goofy times you have together, the college football games you take in, or how often you do (or don't) go out to breakfast. It's about having a protector who watches over you--someone who always gives you advice and an honest opinion--the man who is in entrusted by God with your hopes and dreams until someone else comes along.

I'm not always the loving, respectful, dutiful daughter that I should be. But I try.......yet I don't have to try to love my daddy. That's the easy part!

Happy Birthday, Dad. I love you so very much.

the picture was taken in 2004 if you wanted to know ;-)

Respectfully Removed

Y'all probably were well aware of my political opinions this past autumn and winter. I certainly made things obvious, and I don't just mean by my blog posts. I proudly displayed my "NObama" button on my sidebar. Indeed, I had a message to send with it--I was not in favor of Barack Obama. I made sure it was up rather high so it would be noticeable.



So maybe you have noticed that it is no longer there. It's no longer on our car either.

On November 4, 2008, the Lord made the choice he wanted for the United States of America. January 20, 2009 brought His will to pass. I could be in denial all I want, but that doesn't change reality. For some reason that is beyond my understanding, Barack Obama is the 44th president of this country. As such, I owe the office some respect.

I still have issues with President Obama, don't get me wrong. There are things about him I want to like (the fact that he is young with children is something I can relate more easily to as opposed to a grandfatherish sort) I was pleasantly surprised with his speech yesterday. But I still struggle with the liberal agenda he is seeking to promote; his ideology and mine do not match up at all. Yet he is still my leader, the one God has appointed over me.

It is a high honor to have the title of president. To have the ability to "preserve, protect, and defend the Constitution of the United States.....so help you God" is one that should never be taken lightly. And though we can struggle with the fact that we have a liberal president now, we should be thanking the Lord that we have the ability to elect the leader we want. We don't have Socialism, or Communism, or a Monarchy, or screwed elections. We have a free Republic, and for the next four years, we have President Obama.

I guess what I am saying is that the time has come for me to show some respect. For who am I to question God's choice?! Yes, there will probably come a time when I will be so angry and frustrated with him......but I am not there yet. I have my faith in a Higher Power, a God who can change the hardest of hearts.

I am resolved to not make the same mistake twice. President Obama is going to be in my prayers daily. Wouldn't it be awesome to see the Lord turn a radical leftist into a radical rightist? And don't tell me it can't be done, because it can!! In the meantime, I am going to pray for the strength and grace to show some respect.

Would you all consider doing the same?

Remembering the Obvious....For Once

I don't know about you, but I can take things for granted. In my prayer life, I often pray about the "bad things." Like I am more inclined to pray when my health isn't so great as opposed to when it is. Or I pray for God's guidance when all looks dark and bleak....and not so much when things are rosy. The problem always seems to take precedence.

These past few months have been no exception.

When it comes to politics, my thoughts and prayers have been centered around the "uncertainty" that is looming. My soon-to-be president, Barack Obama, has taken up much of my prayer time. I have prayed for protection for this country, a changed heart for him, that the Lord would work what seems absolutely terrible into something wonderful. You know, the proverbial "beauty from ashes."

While this is all good and has its place, I have neglected the here and now. I still have a president in the form of President Bush. And I have let down the ball. I prayed for him around election times--and when he decided to go to war--but he hasn't been in my prayers daily like he should have been.

Now, you might be different from my family. WE still like the guy. Oh, sure, he has made mistakes. Christians expected things of him in 2004 that he didn't deliver on. He probably should have waited longer before going to Iraq. His views on all these bailouts don't one hundred percent agree with mine. But President George Walker Bush has had his good moments.

His face hasn't stared at us from tabloids (unlike his predecessor.) He has appointed two very conservative Supreme Court justices (who are there until retirement or death, whichever comes first.) He has defended the unborn by his bans of partial-birth abortion and stem cell research. Yes, he has been good.

This president is going to leave with the lowest approval rating ever of a modern president. Yet if you had watched his speech, you would have discovered he doesn't care. He has a clean conscience. Lord willing, he did all that God wanted him to do--and that earns the highest mark, despite what the liberals think.

Tomorrow at Noon EST, he leaves office. Until then, remember him in your prayers with me. Thank the Lord that he has been our president for eight years. Pray that he would be blessed in the days ahead. He still has a few hours of his presidency left--let's pray he makes the right decisions.

Our prayers for Barack Obama will come soon enough. Let's remember the taken for granted tonight.

Monopoly on Tears

Do you ever feel as if the internal waterworks never seem to get shut off? Are you the type of person who seems to get emotional, for good or bad, over every little thing. I don't know about the rest of you, but I definitely feel that way. Sometimes, I think I should invest some "stock" in tears--I would make a mint.

It seems as if my eyes have been red and puffy a lot these days. Tuesday was a bad day, let's just put it that way. In the morning I cried; in the afternoon, I cried even more. These tears were shed out of confusion, doubt, and even anger.

Last night, I cried as I listened to a speech. I was probably only one of handful who gave thirteen minutes of their time to an important political figure. These tears were ones of compassion and sadness....probably with a dash of apprehension for the future.

Psalm 56:8 reads, "You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in Your bottle. You have recorded each one in Your book." None of the tears I have shed have taken the Lord by surprise, even in this age of tears being a sign of weakness.

I wrote in the margin of Psalm 56:8 back in August that "my tears do not go unseen. Praise Him." I believe tears are a gift from God. They show who we are deep down inside of us; it shows that we are flesh and blood with emotions, and not some idol carved out of stone. When He came down and embodied human flesh, even Jesus wept.

If your eyes are wet today, I hope you remember that one day, there will be no more tears and no more pain. And in the meantime, our tears are stored by a Father who yes, causes us to shed them----but only so they can be made into puddles of joy.

I Practiced What Dad Preaches

Okay, that title might cause you to raise your eyebrows. Rest assured, I seek to follow my parent's instruction in all that I do. However, there are those things that sum up your parents exactly. In my family, Dad says, "Comparison shop. Wait around. Get things on the sales or better yet the clearance rack. Save your money."



Granted, this is hard for me to do to a point. I definitely don't keep money long. I am always buying things for family and friends. Rarely do I spend the cold hard cash on myself, but I still spend. When I do spend on myself, Mom and Dad have taught me over the years to buy things that will last and I won't outgrow (likes books, DVDs, etc.)



But now that I am in my late teens, I have wanted to use my money quite frequently to get items for my hopechest. While I only use a few things now, most are safely packed away. Yesterday, I got one of the best deals ever for my future home.

Mom changes our dishes seasonly. Don't think that we get some high-end dinnerware, because we don't! Most of what we have has been gotten from dollar stores. Anyway, I love doing this and it is something I want to have in my future home. So, while shopping with Mom, I bought 4 dessert plates, a vegetable bowl, a creamer and sugar, and a salt and pepper shaker set. The grand total came to $22.22.

What's better.......I saved $84!!!

I encourage you all to be on the lookout for things for your future home. You never know what things you might find.....or what sales you will come away with. Honestly, your husband will be very happy when he finds out that you began the art of saving money from an early age! =)

December's Reading List

December was a fun time as it related to books! I gave myself a break from things of "depth" and just read Christmas related things. It was a lot of fun! Maybe you have read something on my list?


Hinds Feet on High Places, by Hannah Hurnard--Okay, so this is the one non-Christmas book I read. All I can say is "WOW!" I had never read it before, though I had long wanted to. If you haven't read it, it is a must. This book is such an encouraging and challenging read. With it, I did a first--I underlined all that spoke to me. It's in pencil, but I still did it =)


Christmas By the Hearth, by Tyndale Writers--This is a delightful collection of Christmas short stories. They all are twenty-five pages or less, so you are able to get one (or even two) done in an hour. Besides "The Gift of the Magi," I love the story "An Aardvark for Cassandra."


The Christmas Child, by Max Lucado--This short story was one of two books I read this December that were adapted into movies I have watched....and loved. I would definitely recommend reading "The Christmas Child," but I love the movie more. You could say that is because I read it first. The book is much shorter and condensed than the movie is and I like the things the movie added. (Bad girl, I know =) To get the synopsis of the story, read the review I did on the movie here.


The Note, by Angela Hunt--This is the other book I read that became created into a movie. While you might think the movie would add things into the book, it actually changed one of the characters from being a female who would do ANYTHING to get ahead (which is the way the book had it) to it being a male bent on getting ahead (which is the movie's way.) Because of the one character, I would just use a little bit of discretion. You can skip a page or two when you can tell what is going to happen. And definitely, watch the movie! I reviewed it here.


Jotham's Journey, by Arnold Ytreeide--For several Advents, my family has done a particular series of books. They are about either a boy or a girl who has some incredible times. Along their journeys, they have interaction with many people from the Christmas story. In Jotham's case, he meets Zechariah and Elizabeth, Simeon and Anna, the wise men; Jotham is one of the shepherds and his uncle is Joseph. However, this year my family didn't do them together....so I read this one by myself. You read a little part each day with the thought to think about afterwards. It was a nice way to do Bible time around Advent. The first time you read the books.....you will be on edge. =)


The Red Gloves Collection, by Karen Kingsbury--Karen Kingsbury is my one of my favorites in the Christian genre. This collection complies four of her short stories: "Gideon's Gift," "Maggie's Miracle," "Sarah's Song," and "Hannah's Hope." I like some more than others, but they are all good stories. You feel happy afterwards. Use your own discretion, as there is some difficult subject material. Nothing bad mind you, but I have to give warning. Like in "Sarah's Song," the woman is telling about her past and how she compromised her convictions and herself to get ahead. I had read a few of these before, but it was nice to read them all again!

So, have you read any of these?

I Need Y'all's Imput

Something has caught my eye recently.....and I want to hear what you all think and what your opinions are.


Regency Film Costume Class: If you love costume films--particularly Jane Austen adaptations--then this is the class for you! We dissect the costuming for six films (one per week), looking at issues including authenticity, methods, design vs. execution, and more. This class is especially meant for groups of friends to enjoy together. If you gather five or more people to take this class, you will qualify for a discount for each person. The cost for a single individual is $25, but if you have a group, you can each take the class for $15. [Note: immediate family members in the same household do not need to pay twice or make themselves a group; one registration is sufficient!] To qualify, I need to hear from the appointed group leader, who will need to provide the email addresses of all her group members. You need five people to qualify as a group. Please drop a line through my Feedback Form if you'd like to gather a group for this class, and I'll provide you the link to the group registration page. Otherwise, click the Paypal button below to register as an individual for this class! Click HERE for the class syllabus. The first 2009 session of this class is now open for registration. Lessons will run from January 19 through February 27. Past students who were unable to finish their lessons are welcome to join in on a future class without paying again. [Please note: The films themselves are not included in the price of the class; you will need to find those locally. Check your library or your video stores. If you can't find them there, try using Netflix or PeerFlix. Thanks!]

I have wanted to do this class before, but times never got worked out. Then I thought, "what a great way to get to know some of my blog readers better. I mean, who doesn't like Jane Austen?!" It's run by Mrs. Jennie Chancey who develops her own patterns. You can check out the website.

So, comment to me if it would work for you. Or comment if you have interest, but you want me to find out about other dates. Rest assured, it isn't sewing.....it's analyzing movies, and I do that all the time.....in my head =)

Let me know! I would love to get a group together!!

The Old Fades....New Things Come

"If we celebrate the years behind us, they become stepping stones of strength and joy for the years ahead."

Today is the final day of the year 2008. In the midst of getting excited for ringing in the New Year, perhaps staying up until midnight, and thinking of all that lays ahead, we can easily skip over all that the past 365 days have taught and brought us.

This quote reminds me how much I have to celebrate.

I never expected a lot of what 2008 brought to me. Those who have read my blog for a long time, or who know me very well, know that I have had many changes come in my life since this time last year. It has been quite a journey......that's putting it mildly. But you know, I wouldn't change anything for the world.

2008 found old things ending like formal education and the church we used to attend. But it also found me reaping blessings in the form of dear friendships formed, adoption papers rolling for my family, a new puppy.....

It also opened my eyes to the fact that I have still so much to learn about my Savior. I am only beginning to learn about grace, unfailing love, mercy, trust, faith, and peace. Each of these character qualities/attributes began budding even more in the fiber of my soul.

I didn't discover some answers that I would love to have answered. I had days of confusion and tears......even anger and doubt. But I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that they were, and are, stepping stones into the woman God wants me to be.

2008 was an incredible year. I hope you all can close this book and say "God, You are good. You are great. Everything was just as it should have been." By His strength and grace, I can.

"There are better things ahead than any we leave behind.~~C.S. Lewis" I say "Amen" for it was just as true about the transition from 2007 into 2008. It will be the same with 2009!

Happy New Year, everybody!

Unfailing Love

You have my heart
And I am Yours forever
You are my strength
God of grace and power

And everything You hold in Your hand
Still You make time for me
I can't understand
Praise You God of Earth and sky
How beautiful is Your unfailing love
Unfailing love

And You never change God You remain
The Holy One
My unfailing love
Unfailing love

You are my rock
The one I hold on to
You are my song
And I sing for You

And everything You hold in Your hand
Still You make time for me
I can't understand
Praise You God of Earth and sky
How beautiful is Your unfailing love
Unfailing love

And You never change God You remain
The Holy One
My Unfailing love
Unfailing love

And everything You hold in Your hand
Still you make time for me
I can't understand
Praise You God of Earth and sky
How beautiful is Your unfailing love
Unfailing love

And You never change God You remain
The Holy One
My Unfailing love
Unfailing love

I will praise You
Praise you God of earth and sky
How beautiful is your unfailing love
Unfailing love

And You never change God You remain
The Holy One
My Unfailing love

I just got this Chris Tomlin song for my MP3 player and I thought I would share the lyrics with you. This could really sum up what the Lord has been teaching me in 2008....but there is still more. May the words encourage you as they have me.

Oh the Weather Outside

It's definitely frightful!

Perhaps most of you are snow lovers. Let's put it this way......I like it, but in moderation. Nothing against any of you who might experience blizzards......those aren't for me. And honestly, this morning if you had look outside, you seriously would have thought I lived in North Dakota or somewhere.

I did have a white Christmas, though on Thursday it tended towards freezing rain. Now, it's a whole new story. You can imagine the trouble it is to get Nikki and Ginger to go outside. They don't want to deal with the wind =)

I think I should curl up with a cup of tea and my favorite girly movie. Yes, that sounds like a good idea. Or maybe I should figure out what musicals I want to do next week.....that's a good idea too. I will let y'all enjoy the outdoors for me.

I hope your weather isn't as nasty as mine. I have to remind myself that the Lord created and loves the winter just as much as He does the spring...and green...and warmth. =)

Stay warm. God bless!

To All of You

From my family to yours, I hope you all have a very Merry Christmas! In the midst of the presents and the yummy food, may we remember what we are celebrating: God giving up everything in the glory of Heaven to come to earth in the form of a baby.

He gave up riches to become poor. He had a feed box for a cradle--swaddling clothes for coverage.

He knew exactly what would come as a result of His birth--His death thirty-three years later on Calvary.

But He came anyway.

Take comfort from that. And enjoy the day with your family and friends!

God bless.

It Got to Me

The Friday after Thanksgiving, I can always tell that Christmas is just around the corner. All of a sudden, people cease to be friendly. Cars are twice as likely to honk the minute the light turns green. In stores, people hustle and bustle their way in and don't make room for you. I always say sarcastically :"It's Christmas!"

Every year, I talk about how I hate that behavior. And I always think I am above acting like that........Every year, I found out that I am not.

This past week, the business of all that I had to do got to me. I had packages to get out to long distance friends and I wanted them to get there before Christmas. We had gifts for the grandparents to finish up and mail, which entailed recording some piano music onto the MP3 player and editing the family cookbook. I had my own presents to wrap. Add in eating too many sweets, having to play referee between dogs.......I got testy......and with my own family.

Now that everything I have had to do has been done, I have had time to reflect. The real meaning of Christmas isn't found in the gifts beneath the tree or meeting deadlines. It's being still; it's stopping to remember all that Christ gave up in the glory of Heaven to come to Earth. Even if we didn't do presents or make the traditional Christmas yummies, Christmas would still be Christmas. The Ultimate Gift would still have been given.

So, I hope none of you fall into the trap that I have. If you still have shopping and things, make sure you say "Merry Christmas" honestly, lovingly, and sincerely. (I did do that =) But if you are done with the merry-go-round, stop. Reflect. For me, that will mean pondering what my gift to Jesus is this year......and listening to "Child of the Promist" (which if you can find the cd, it is one the best Christmas albums--it's a lot of Christian artists acting out the Christmas story in song.)

In these last days, I want to make sure Christ is in my Christmas....where He belongs!

Christmas Movies....Week 5

It's the final week before Christmas. How hard is that to believe??!! So, I have quite a few movies for you this week--since I won't be able to do them for a whole new year. Stick with me, and maybe you will find something new.


Holiday Affair--starring Robert Mitchum and Janet Leigh--Don't let the word "affair" throw you off; this movie is entirely decent and very sweet. It is the story of a young widow who is unable to give her son the gift he wants most. Along the way, she meets Robert Mitchum who throws a wrench into all of her plans. Her son likes him......but there is another guy courting Janet Leigh's character!


Christmas Eve--starring Loretta Young and Trevor Howard--This is a tv movie from the 1980's, but there isn't any issue. Loretta Young plays a rich socialte who gives away money to the homeless and destitute. This fact makes her son want to have her committed. While there is this plot going on, Loretta Young finds out that she is dying and her goal is to have her grandchildren home for Christmas and a reunion with their estranged father--that same son. It is a very endearing movie.


A Christmas Carol--starring George C. Scott--This is my favorite version of Dicken's classic novel. Though the very first time I watched it, I was crying and freaking out.....I am an auditory learner, so creepy music gets to me. You all know the story, so I don't have to give you a synopsis. But I say for you to get this version.


Miracle of 34th Street--starring Maureen O' Hara, Edmund Gwenn, and Natalie Wood--I have never believed in Santa Claus, and I know the Santa subject is a touchy one. But actually, I asked that we watch this movie the other day because of all the older actors in it. I knew we would recognize so many faces now.....and we did. It's kind of cute. I say watch it at least once in your life.


The Nativity Story---I can't remember who stars in this, but it is a very good movie. I am sure most of you have seen this one. I watched it for the first time last year and we greatly enjoyed it. We're going to do it sometime this year =)

It's a Wonderful Life--starring James Stewart, Donna Reed, Henry Travers--Okay, most of you hadn't seen Sabrina. I hope all of you have seen this classic!! If not......you will really shock me! You all know the story: it is the story of a small town man with big aspirations, but it takes a visit from an angel to realize how blessed he is. We will watch this movie on Christmas night. We have for the past few years.


Have a blessed time with these Christmas flicks!

And the Winner Is......

You all threw me for a loop. Actually, that's putting it mildly. I anticipated comments to the effect of, "I love Sabrina, but I haven't yet added it to my collection......" But no. Very few of you have seen it and some of you haven't even HEARD of it!!!!

I was shocked. So was Mom....and Dad......and even Garrett. They all have watched it.

As names came in, I thought many pleasant thoughts. When Jessica left a comment, I thought "Oh great, now I have an excuse to get her mailing address =) Jade, Madison, Jenna, Sara, Sara G., and Meghan--"It would be great to get to know them better." Bonnie--"Mailing out of the country will be interesting." Anna, Miriam, and Erin--"I know them so well already."

But Dad drew out........



Miriam's name~~~~

So, my dear, you are the one who will have the pleasure of owning this DVD. You can "share" it as you see fit =)

But for the rest of you, I am not done with giveaways. Though Miriam will not be allowed to enter, all of you will be =) Around the first of the year, I will be giving away a triple feature of Audrey Hepburn (Roman Holiday, Sabrina, and Breakfast at Tiffany's.) I am able to recommend the first two, but since I haven't watched Breakfast at Tiffany's, you will have to use your own judgment and discretion.

Yet that isn't until 2009--just thought I would whet your appetite!

Hope you all are looking forward to the next one! And congratulations, Miriam!

No Wonder I Have a Back Ache.....and some Stomach Cramps =)

Oh my. It feels so good to sit!! Honestly, I am not kidding. For the past two days, Mom and I have basically lived in the kitchen. Sitting has been minimal; computer time has been taken in, like, five minute intervals. Yesterday, we ate dinner standing up and today was McDonalds. Talk about healthy.

So, what have we been up to..........Oh, nothing much. Just baking peanut butter cup cookies, creamy butter cookies, tri-colored cookies, chocolate chip cookies, shortbreads, nutty thumbprints, peppermint crush, nut clusters, gingerbread men, lemon basil cookies, Russian tea cakes, chocolate peanut butter fudge, and for all I know, I am missing something.

These pictures will give you a pretty good idea.

Teenage guys like to eat. Garrett does, and I know my friend, Erin's, brother does. But I know they won't eat ALL of these!

And trust me, my family won't be either.

Tomorrow, we head to doctors' offices and the library. Giving cookies is a way of saying "thank you" to them. The mail lady and the garbage men will get them too. Everyone will probably think we are nuts, but who cares?! It is a way to show the love of Christ.

But as you can imagine, I have had my share of sweets. After all, I have to taste =) But now....I am paying for it

Maybe I made your mouth water. Good. Go catch a flight out here and help me eat them with some hot tea, cocoa, or coffee! There are still plenty left

A Giveaway For My Readers

While at Walmart, my family and I picked up a DVD collection. It contained one of my favorite girly movies of all time, Sabrina. However, since I already had it, we debated about getting the collection.....until I thought "why not do a giveaway on my blog for my dear readers.

So, that is what I am doing!!

If you aren't familiar with the story, it is about Sabrina Fairchild whose father works for the Larabee's, a very wealthy New York family. Well, she has a crush on the younger Larabee (played by William Holden) but he hardly notices her....until she comes back from Paris even more lovely than before. Daddy Larabee and Big Brother (played by Humphrey Bogart) want nothing to come between them, so Brother starts hanging out with Sabrina. And what do you think happens?! =) There is nothing to worry about and even my brother likes this one!

If this classic film sounds great to you--or if you have seen it before and want it added to your collection--leave me a comment and I will place you in the drawing to be held December 19th. There is just one thing--you have to be a regular reader of my blog. None of this mentioning it stuff =)

So, leave me a comment along with telling me why you would like Sabrina--not that it will make any difference! =)

Good luck!

Christmas Movies.....Week 4

I have no idea where the week has gone! It seems like it has been a never ending cycle of walking dogs out and studying anatomy and physiology! =) I almost forgot that it was Friday and I usually do movies today or tomorrow. It was Mom who said something! But never mind. Here I am, and here are four Christmas movies for your enjoyment. They aren't all old--in fact, only one of them is....but I enjoy them!


The Note--starring Genie Francis and Ted McGinley--Mom and I just watched this movie last week and we decided it is definitely getting added to our collection! If you have the Hallmark channel, maybe you saw it a while ago. But I don't, so I only just got it on DVD. It is based on the book by Angela Hunt (which I am currently reading.) It is the story of a reporter who discovers a note from a plane crash. Without much to go on, she seeks to give the rightful person the note. Along the way, she comes to have peace about things from her past. There is nothing objectionable and you probably will get teary-eyed!


The Christmas Box--starring Richard Thomas and Maureen O'Hara--When I first started watching this movie, I didn't know about the Waltons or Richard Thomas being John Boy. But now I do =) Anyway, I just love this movie. It is a must for every year in my book. It is the story of a workaholic, who while being a caretaker for this old lady's house, discovers the value of family. I encourage you to see it. I get teary-eyed in it too!


The Christmas Child--starring William R. Moses, Megan Follows, and Steven Curtis Chapman--Based on the book by Max Lucado (which I just finished) The Christmas Child is the story of a man searching for his family. Yes, he has a wife..and not that great of a marriage. But he wants to have answers about his adoption. So he returns to the place of his birth and in the end, all questions are answered. I think I get teary-eyed in this one =) But I love hearing Steven Curtis Chapman sing in the film.


White Christmas--starring Bing Crosby, Danny Kaye, Rosemary Clooney, and Vera-Ellen--Okay, so most of you have seen this one. I will confess, this is not a musical I can get the rest of my family to watch with me. However, I could with these changes: Frank Sinatra instead of Bing Crosby. Maybe Doris Day in Rosemary Clooney's role. And Perhaps Donald O' Conner for Danny Kaye (though Garrett doesn't mind Danny Kaye =) All kidding aside, I like this movie. I get several of the songs stuck in my head--which isn't bad!

Enjoy some Christmas movies. Again, if you have seen any on this list, I would enjoy hearing your thoughts/opinions of them!

The Christmas Trees God Gave Us

Around Christmas, there are many, many smells permeating the house. They come from the candles in the bathrooms and the scent pot in the kitchen. Though on days when the oven is on, cinnamon, nutmeg, peppermint, chocolate bring a whole new flavor......and set your taste buds watering. But there is one scent we do not have at Christmas. That is the scent of a freshly cut Christmas evergreen.

In my entire life, we have only had a real tree two times. But when Mom figured out that all of her headaches were from the fragrance of pine, the real tree idea was scrapped. So, while we don't have the annoyance of needles everywhere on the floor, we don't have that distinct spiciness...unless we have an evergreen scented candle burning.

You know what? I don't mind. What we do have in the form of our artificial Christmas tree means so much more to me.

From June of 2003 to July of 2005, my dad was unemployed. It is a long story--far too long to go into detail now. I will only say it was a time when we saw the Lord do amazing things for us. Sure, you see Him act all the time, but when you are in dire straits, it takes on a whole new meaning. One such way we saw the Lord was by His giving us our Christmas tree.

Now, lest I paint a terrible picture, I want you to know that we weren't destitute--we had money (though granted, we were living off of our previous home's equity.) Needless to say, when money is tight, the last thing you do is spend it on something frivolous like a tree that will die in a few weeks. By this time, the artificial tree that I had grown up with had "bitten the dust" and Mom's allergy had been discovered. So, we were at peace about not having a tree to place some presents under. After all, that doesn't matter anyway. But God had other ideas.

Some friends at the time sent us a check in the mail. That had been happening a lot. People were doing things anonymously for us--Garrett and I had even been on the receiving end with gift cards to Walmart. However, this particular check wasn't anonymous--and there was a purpose for it. They wanted us to buy a Christmas tree.

Now, they didn't know about Mom, but we decided to do exactly what they said. We bought a new artificial tree with their thoughtfulness towards us. Every year when we set it up, we are reminded of the trials we had during Dad's unemployment--and the provision and compassion of a Loving Father.

But it doesn't stop there. In my bedroom every Christmas, I am reminded of some unknown person's thoughtfulness. With that Walmart gift card, I bought a small artificial tree of my own for $2. I cannot thank the person who showed love towards me those years ago--I am not entirely positive who did it. But I can thank my Lord, who even cares about the little things, even Christmas trees.

The individuals God used to fufill his purposes have left our lives now. But what they did has not. And every Christmas, I get the opportunity to remember what my family went through. I wouldn't want to experience it again--but oh! The memories!

What has been one instance where you are reminded again and again of God's provision and caring nature?

Her Name Is.......

It was great fun to see y'alls guesses about my puppy's name. There was a common thread in that "Grace" was suggested a lot. You know that I love Grace Kelly--I think she is the classiest actress of all time. And her name would have fit my family. But......





That isn't it.





I love Audrey Hepburn too. She is perfect for roles in Roman Holiday and Sabrina (Which by the way are two movies my brother will watch that are "girly movies.")





But she isn't it either.





Let's see....there was Katherine Hepburn. Loretta Young. Marilyn (which I am assuming it was for Marilyn Monroe) All of those are well known.......





But no.





My puppy was named after Dad's favorite actress. Jade got it right.

I could have said she was in musicals. That might have helped..... =) Yes, our dog is named Ginger. She still fits in our family. (Nikki, our other dog, does as well, for she is a combination of mine and my brother's middles names.)

Isn't this fun?!

Play the Name Game.....Please! =)

Introducing the newest member of our family!!!!!

I am not going to tell you what her name is. I want you to guess.....and I am only going to give you one hint.

Think a classic female actress. Yep. That's it.

Sort of Christmas Movies.....Week 3

With the feeling of Christmas in the air, I thought December whould be filled with some Christma movies =) However, since I am going back and re-watching a lot this year, I will share those with you when I have "double-checked" them. Yet, this week, I would share four movies that are very sweet and take place around Christmastime. I wonder if you have seen any of them:


Penny Serenade--starring Cary Grant and Irene Dunne--This is one of Mom's absoulte favorites. She cries in it everytime. =) Though the first time we watched it, we knew we were missing a scene, so we had to get the DVD another time. It is the story of a married couple, who are unable to have children.....so they seek to adopt. It is funny at times and tender throughout. There is not a single issue in it. (And a little piece of trivia--Cary Grant was nominated for the Best Actor award for this film.)


I'll Be Seeing You--starring Joseph Cotten, Ginger Rogers, and Shirley Temple--Another very sweet and tender movie. Though it isn't overly so, as Dad likes it a lot. Ginger Rogers plays a woman on Christmas vacation.....from women's prison.....and Joseph Cotten is a shell-shocked veteran. They both meet and fall in love, but their pasts threaten. Shirley Temple is a teenage in the film, so don't expect the one you are used to. Again, there is not a single issue in the movie.


Christmas in Connecticut--starring Barbara Stanwyck and Dennis Morgan--The first time I watched this movie was in June, so while it takes place around Christmas, you don't have to only watch it then. Since Mom and I were the only ones who watched it, we want Garrett and Dad to see it this year. It is funny. Barbara Stanwyck is a columnist who is not what her readers think her to be. She is not a housewife who bakes delicious dishes. But when her publisher announces he is coming for Christmas, and he is bringing a soldier.....well, she better start. The only thing in this movie is that Barbara has to appear that she is married, but everything is innocent and FUNNY!


Holiday Inn--starring Bing Crosby and Fred Astaire--It always used to drive me crazy when I read the song "White Christmas" was in Holiday Inn. I thought it premiered in White Christmas first, but not so. This movie spans throughout the whole year, so there are a whole bunch of songs written by Irving Berlin. It's about two guys who fall in love with the same girl....


Hope you enjoy some of these! If you have seen something, I would enjoy hearing about what you thought!

October....and November's....Reading List

Am I bad or what? I was doing so many election posts in November, I never did get to share what I read in October. Now, I have two months to do.....but amazingly, I don't have much to show for it. You will see why! =)

Paris Encore, by Brock and Bodie Thoene--It seems like ages since I read Book 8 in the Zion Covenant Series. I have shared with Mom that one day, if I could own the series, I would. Since it has been a month, I can't quite remember if there were any "little issues" you might have. I know I didn't have any problems, though I think it was in this one (or maybe it was Book 7) where two younger characters have a strong attraction to one another....and they have to fight temptations. I just loved following characters that I have grown to know and love.


Dunkirk Crescendo, by Brock and Bodie Thoene--The final book in the Zion Covenant Series. It could have gone on in my opinion. But all things must come to an end sometimes, I guess. This one is the most violent of the Series, as it takes place during the Dunkirk invasion....from many different angles. The happenings aren't graphic, but it is mostly battles. If I had to say, I think book 2 and book 6 were my favorites....but they all were really good.


Women of Pemberley, by Rebecca Ann Collins--I shared in my last reading list about this series of books. You know, the "sequel" to Pride and Prejudice? I just love reading someone else's adaptation of what would happen to all of those beloved characters. If you can your hands on the first book in the series, I urge you to do so. For Jane Austen lovers, they are must reads. Sure, they don't replace the work Miss Austen did herself, but.....You will be delighted!


My Dad, John McCain, but Meghan McCain--Whether or not you agree with McCain's policies, or his choosing of Sarah Palin, you have to admit he has done some amazing things for this country. Namely, McCain spent five and a half years in a North Vietnamese prison camp while serving in our Armed Forces. This little, and easy, picture book (written by a daughter who loves and respects her father) makes you extremely thankful for his sacrifice. And yes, it made me wonder why the American people chose to NOT have a patriot leading their nation....but God knows the reason why.


Our Mutual Friend, by Charles Dickens--It took all of November, but I FINALLY finished this novel by a classic author. I have read one Dicken's novel before, yet it is an accomplishment to read 820 pages of one =) The story line is very complex--in the book there are about four storylines going on. If you can, I would say get a hold of the movie instead. The storylines are much more easily completed, everything is less wordy, and you still get the message Dickens wanted (Thankfully, the movie cuts out one storyline that is very hard to understand) There is a quick little something in the film, but it you wanted to know where the issue is, I could easily tell you.

So, there is what I have been up to in the reading world (though it doesn't include things I am working on for studies) What have you been reading?

Getting to Know Me--Christmas Edition

December 1st....where has the year gone? It is so hard to believe that Christmas is almost upon us, that 2008 is thirty days from closing. Mom is getting ready to do this "tag of sorts" on her blog, and I thought I would do it on mine as well. You can get to know the "me" that comes every December. I do enjoy the Christmas season!

1. Wrapping paper or gift bags? I prefer wrapping paper with lots of curly ribbon! Of course, I tone it down for Garrett's packages.

2. Real tree or Artificial? I do love the smell of real evergreens, but Mom is allergic to the pine. She gets these terrible headaches.....so we use an artificial. There is a story behind our tree that Mom has said I should share with you all......I probably will. =)

3. When do you put up the tree? It depends, but it is NEVER the day after Thanksgiving. Garrett doesn't want Christmas to overshadow his birthday and I can't blame him. I think the plan is to decorate this Friday.

4. When do you take the tree down? That I do not know. Usually a few days after Christmas, but the winter decorations stay up until March.

5. Do you like egg nog? Yes! Definitely! Though for some reason, I always forget it is in the fridge when we have it.

6. Favorite gift received as a child? Aren't I still a child?! =) Sort of. But I think my favorite gift has been my American Girl doll, Samantha, that I received at age 10. Though I have seen video of getting my doll house around age 5. I was screaming so loud with that gift, my voice went hoarse.

7. Do you have a nativity scene? Yes, we have a Precious Moments one that we've used ever since I can remember. When I was younger, I used to keep the baby Jesus in my room until Christmas.....on that morning, He was gone.....and where He should be. However, Mom would like a more "serious" looking one now.

8. Hardest person to buy for? it used to be Garrett, but I have gotten him down pat. Dad has gotten harder =)

9. Easiest person to buy for? Hands-down, Mom. I could bascially buy my personality for her.

10. Mail or email Christmas cards? Mail cards, though I send e-cards as well. Mom does a Christmas letter every year to long distance people. I love to re-read what she has written each year.

11. Worst Christmas gift you ever received? I have zero idea. I like all of things people give me. After all, they don't have to think of me.

12. Favorite Christmas movie(s) What a hard question!! I love White Christmas--there's the musical lover in me. I also have to watch The Christmas Box every year. And It's a Wonderful Life is Christmas night tradition.

13. When do you start shopping for Christmas? I work on the handmade things all throughout the year...or I start compiling ideas.But I will really start in the next week: buying things, ordering things, sending things =)

14. Have you ever recycled a Christmas present? Yes, I do it some. I know I have done it with bath products. I have so many....why not pass them on so someone could use them more readily.

15. Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? Orange Bread--our traditional breakfast Christmas morning. And peppermint cheesecake!! Christmas wouldn't be complete without cheesecake!! I will post that recipe.

16. Clear or colored Christmas lights? Colored on the tree--clear if we decorate outside--and we don't that much

17. Favorite Christmas song(s)? I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day; Mary, Did you Know; Christmas is All in the Heart; Angels We Have Heard on High; Joy to the World; and White Christmas (if that counts =)

18. Travel at Christmas or stay home? Nana and PopPop used to come to our house when we lived in Florida. Now, we stay home here--and we like having it just the family for this holiday. We have shaken things up, as we eat a brunch, slowing and thankfully open gifts, and then we eat snacks (and cheesecake) as we watch It's a Wonderful Life.

19. Can you name all of Santa's reindeer? Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet, Cupid, Donner and Blitzen and Rudolph. (This was a given, since I never deleted Mom's answers...but I could have named them myself)

20. Angel on the tree top or a star? An porcelain angel Nana made. But know that we have low ceilings....and it can't fit on our big tree....I put the angel on my own little artificial treee.

21. Open the presents Christmas Eve or morning? Christmas morning.

22. Most annoying thing about this time of year? The commercialization and materialism. I won't deny that is my majoyr pet peeve with Christmas. It isn't about Christ and giving any more; it's all gimme, gimme, gimme. And I detest the selfish shoppers who are rude as all get out.

23. Favorite ornament theme or color? I love all of our ornaments. You can easily forget what ones you have, since you only see them once a year.

24. Favorite dinner for Christmas? I already said what we do for our meal. We used to have a tradition of going out to dinner on Christmas Eve at a nice restaurant. But that meant expensive....and that isn't in the budget anymore.

25. What do you want for Christmas this year? That's a self-centered question! I would love for our adoption papers to have speedy results, we're going to get another beagle puppy! We decided this year that we wouldn't buy that much this year and got a family gift instead--a new TV on sale. And I am buying myself the MP3 player. So, I guess I want my family to just feel blessed this Christmas--and we do.

26. Do you bake lots of goodies during the holidays? Absolutely!! It is a must. I love the peanut butter cup cookies that for some reason only get made at Christmastime. Then there are sugar cookies, Dad and Garrett make the fruit cake, and all sorts of other stuff.

27. Do you decorate different rooms of your home? Yes. Downstairs we have the Christmas tree. The main level has garland, the nativity scene, and some other things. My room gets a little Christmas tree with special ornaments (at least of me) I also put up fake pointsettas.

28. What decorations do you put outside? WE used to, but Dad doesn't exactly want to battle the winds (which we have plenty of) and put them up. So, we use our cross all in white lights. That's the true meaning of Christmas after all.

29. How do you spend Christmas Eve? I already told you--we used to do the nice restaurant thing and look at Christmas lights. But no one really puts them up any more. And expensive dinners aren't in the budget. (Cheesecake Factory for graduation was a treat!) So, I don't quite know what we will do this year.

30. Is Christmas your favorite holiday? Yes. I love planning the gifts I want to give my family and dear friends. But when it gets too commerical.....I detest it =)

Okay, so I tag all of you who are in to these things! I would really enjoy hearing!

Movies--Week 2

I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Today, I am thankful for my brother. It is Garrett's 17th birthday!! Since I have done so much already about him, I thought I would turn my movie post into something that "honors" him. (But don't worry, musicals will be back in January--Christmas movies are on the docket next)

His favorite sport is baseball. He is barely getting by right now; he is counting down the days until spring training. So, I am posting some classic movies about baseball. Maybe you all will like them, maybe you won't. All I know is that Garrett does =) If you have a sports loving brother, you can get him to watch these with you:


Pride of the Yankees--starring Gary Cooper and Teresa Wright--Being a MAJOR Red Sox fan, Garrett does not like the Yankees. But he does like Lou Gerhig. Gary Cooper was nominated (but did now win) the Best Actor award for his portrayal of this ball player. He has an amazing story (Gerhig does) and as you know, he has an "illness" that bears his name now. I do get teary-eyed in the scene where he gives the famous speech.


The Sratton Story--starring James Stewart and June Allyson--Okay, Lou Gerhig is a common name in baseball. Monty Stratton is not. But he also has a tremendous story. Stewart plays Stratton, who is a a very good baseball player, but then...he has to cope with losing a leg to amputation. It is very inspiring. And in both of these movies, you see what a role a wife can play when she supports her husband.


The Winning Team--starring Doris Day and Ronald Reagan--I love this movie for the cast. Doris Day is my favorite and Reagan is my favorite president. Reagan plays Grover Cleveland Alexander (who was also a real athlete, but I didn't know of him either) His story revolves around a mysterious injury he has to cope with, the fallout that happens, and the wife who sticks with him.


Angels in the Outfield--starring Paul Douglas and Janet Leigh--Up until recently, we had only watched the 90's remake. But I like this old version a whole lot better. You might know the story: a baseball team stinks, "angels" help them out, and families are created. The emotional element is very sweet in this movie. And it is funny too!!

Okay, so I didn't say much about these flicks. But that doesn't mean I don't think they are bad. I like them. If you have seen any of them, let me know! And nothing is wrong in any of them!

Happy Birthday, Garrett!

There's So Much To Be Thankful For

Courtesy of Julia, I have been tagged. However, I felt this one was worth doing, as I was going to post about what I am most thankful for anyway. There is truly so much that I have been blessed with this year, it overwhelms me. I thought I would share them with you.

1.) I am thankful that I am the Lord's child; that His grace and mercy extends to each new day. He continues to show me Himself when I am in my lowest moments...and He gives me a shoulder to cry on in the midst of them. I think every year I discover this truth more and more. But with all that has gone on this year.....I believe it more so.

2.) I am thankful for my loving family and all that they mean to me. Each is so very different and yet, we are all so very close. Dad is my protector and guider; Mom is my confidante, Garrett is the one who keeps me light =) I am even blessed to have my dog, Nikki.

3.) I am thankful for my dear friends. Those who read this blog and those who know me on a more personal level. You all have been there for me in so many ways at so many times. The Lord has blessed me richly with some like-minded fellowship after so many years of being alone. (Granted, it is all on the Internet, but....)

4.) I am thankful that I live in the United States of America. Okay, so we have problems. We've strayed from God. But we are still the most free nation on the face of the earth. I cannot even begin to grasp what it would be like to have that freedom removed....I don't want to know.

5.) I am thankful for the daily needs I can easily take for granted--food, clothes, shelter. With the economic fallout that is talked about in the news, I recognize that many are not as fortunate. So my family doesn't have big bucks; things are tight. But we are still better off than some.

6.) I am thankful that the Lord has given me talents to use for His glory. Because of Him, I am able to play the piano and write. I can express who I am in these two things (writing more so, but piano by how I play) If I didn't have that....

7.) I am thankful that I have a desire to remain under my father's authority until marriage. I am blessed that he is there protecting me and I can bounce things off of him--always getting his input before I do anything. I am learning that I can have ideas, desires, and goals, but I can have them in an honoring way.

8.) I am thankful that I am keeping myself pure--even to my first kiss--until my wedding day. Oh, there are definitely days when I doubt it will ever come to pass. But then, there are the days when I know there is just a beautiful love story out there waiting for me.

9.) I am thankful that I was able to be homeschooled most years of my education. Don't think I am isolated and delusional....because I am not. But it was parents who exposed and taught me about things. I am thankful that my parents found freedom to pick and choose what we best for my course of study so I could best enjoy it. (That said, I am SO thankful that I have only 200 pages of Dickens left =)

10.) I am thankful that I have the opportunity to post on this blog and that I can show you a little glimpse into my daily life and thoughts. It is a joy for me to do!

I hope you all have a very Happy Thanksgiving! God bless.

Thanksgiving Plans and Traditions

I'll be posting on Thanksgiving about all that I have to be thankful for.....which is a lot. But today, my mind is thinking of all that will go into the day. Garrett and I are convincing Mom that it is better to go grocery shooping today, since the stores will be CRAZY tomorrow afternoon! My mouth is watering from all of the foods we'll be eating. I thought I would take a few minutes and give y'all a glimpse into my home on Thanksgiving Day.

Up until we moved here in 2000, we spent every Thanksgiving with Nana and PopPop (my dad's parents.) I have many fond memories of setting the table; that was MY job. Bot now, it is too far to go to Florida--and Nana has a little difficulty flying. We miss them more than ever this year, but we are still maintaining some of the traditions we do every year.

We eat the same breakfast every year: Dutch Boy pancake. Maybe I should post the recipe some time; it's really good. We eat as we discuss what we have been most thankful for. Then, we go downstairs and watch the Macy's parade.

I don't think there has been one year that I have missed it. I do turn off some of the dances--the Radio City Rockettes in particular =) Then, we watch the dog show....and root for the beagle every time.

Now, we don't really watch football on Thanksgiving. Perhaps we used to, but I can't quite remember. Dad is usually thumbing through the paper and Mom and I are busy cooking. Besides, this year, the teams who play stink =)

Food....who can't love it?! If given the choice, I would eat the sides and THEN the turkey. I am the mashed potatoes queen!! And I just love green bean casserole. Mom makes a corn pudding that is SO good and she makes the best pumpkin pie. I could get hungry just thinking about it. For me, Thanksgiving wouldn't be Thanksgiving without the trimmings. This year, we're going to have a family we know over to share our meal with us.

Black Friday. I have only participated once--in 2001 at the mall around 10:00. I will never do that again!! But believe it or not, Garrett and Dad go every year. Not necessarily to the mall. They go to Best Buy, Office Max, Wal-Mart, places like that. They get up at a ridiculous hour and battle the crowds. THEY get the pleasure of getting my MP3 player =)

So, what about you all? What are Thanksgiving traditions you have? What are your plans? What is your favorite thing to eat? And do any of you go shopping on Black Friday. I would enjoy hearing!

The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly That Happened This Weekend

Thought you all might like to know how my weekend was. It certainly held a variety of emotions. A lot of weekends are like that =)

The Good: Our pastor did a very good sermon on the Sixth Commandment yesterday. He actually took a stance on something, which means a big deal to my family. It's been a problem we've been having: no one takes a stance on anything. But yesterday he did....can you think on what?

GAS PRICES ARE BELOW THE $2 MARK EVERYWHERE IN THE VALLEY!!!!! FINALLY!!!!

We watched quite a number of good suspense movies. I think some have gone into the favorites category, at least for Mom and myself.



The Bad: None of you really follow college football like I do, so I won't go into details. I have just come to the conclusion that the people who pick the bowl games are snobby, elitest, and they don't like Cinderella stories.....That doesn't make sense. Boise State was a Cinderella once, their record is certainly deserving....but no. Sure we have one game to go......but we'll get hosed.

So you can imagine the tirades I have launched into =) Just ask the family. It's only a game, but I do enjoy it.


The Ugly: The pea soup fog we had all day yesterday. It looked like something you would have in the middle of January. I sure wish I had gotten a picture, so you could have seen how bad it was. Today, we've got frost. I probably should expect that in late November, but I don't really want it.

How was y'alls weekend? What was the good? Was there a bad? And how about an ugly? I would enjoy hearing about it!

Musicals--Week 1

And now the moment you all have been waiting for...........

Okay, so that was a bit overdramatic =)

After reading your comments to do musicals first in my "Movie Review Fridays," I came to the conclusion that that was the majority opinion. So, consequently, that's what I will be doing. However, there will be some "exceptions" in the coming weeks, but you will find out what they are later.

Everything I recommend will be available from one of three places: your local library (or if you have a great interlibrary loan system, they'll get it from another state); Netflix (which our family uses); and Turner Classic Movies. We don't have the channel, but our PopPop does, so we ask him to record things.

Today, I decided to do some of my favorites. I bet most of you have seen at least one of them....but I have no ability to know what you have or have not seen. I'll be doing five movies a week, so here we go:



Seven Brides for Seven Brothers--Mom and I didn't understand why you all wanted me to mention this one, as you all have seen it! Anyway, this classic, starring Howard Keel and Jane Powell is my all-time favorite. The song and dance numbers can very easily get in my head and stay there for hours! That can be a good thing and an annoying thing all rolled into one sometimes. It's a sweet story about Millie marrying a back woodsman, only to discover that he lives with his six brothers. They all fall in love with Millie (even more so than her husband at first) and she helps them all find girls. If there is anyone out there who has NOT seen this movie.....RENT IT ON DVD! It's a very well-known movie.


Shall We Dance--starring Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers--Originally, I got this movie for the music in it. I was studying George Gershwin in my piano lessons and with that thought in my mind, I browsed the library. I picked this flick off of the shelf, but I wasn't exposed to the dancing duo of Rogers and Astaire then. Boy, did I love the movie! Garrett has seen parts of it and would watch it again. It is SO funny! Astaire and Rogers are rumored to be married and expecting a child. Of course, it isn't true. But they do a quick marriage and plan a divorce so all rumors could be put to rest. What do you think happens.......The music and lyrics (penned by George's brother, Ira) are simply great.
**There is nothing bad in this one at all. The only thing could be an issue for you is that someone plants a dummy in Astaire's bed to make it look like Rogers and he are married. Just make sure you do NOT get another movie by this same title, starring Richard Gere and Jennifer Lopez. I haven't seen it; it's probably not the same thing. But don't make that mistake!**

Singin in the Rain--starring Gene Kelly, Debbie Reynolds, and Donald O'Conner--another one of those classics that I bet you have seen. If not, I will be very surprised. This is a movie that the whole family can watch together...even your brother. Garrett says it is his favorite musical. It really is funny. The movie is about the transition from silent films to "talkies." Kelly's leading lady has a terrible voice, so Reynolds's voice is used. Kelly and Reynolds fall in love with buddy Donald O'Conner keeping everything light. The songs are fantastic. I often will go out and sing "Singing in the Rain" when it drizzles here....and that isn't very often. O'Conner is definitely the funniest in the whole movie.
**I do want to make you aware of two things. In one scene, Debbie Reynolds comes out of a cake in a short skirt. It's part of a song and really is humorous. The other thing....there is one dance number I always fast forward. It seems like in every Gene Kelly picture, there is a bizarre dance sequence. It is that one that I skip. I can tell you where it is--he is telling his producer about a more "Broadway like" number he wants to add to the movie. The dance is sensual and just plain weird. You won't miss anything by skipping.**


It Happened in Brooklyn--starring Frank Sinatra, Jimmy Durante, Peter Lawford, and Kathryn Grayson--This is just one of many Sinatra musical's I plan on enlightening you with. We watched this one as a whole family one evening. Sinatra is a soldier who returns to Brooklyn. He hopes to get settled back in and have a family. He thinks he has met the girl of his dreams....until his buddy Lawford comes to town and falls for the same girl. Ol' Blue Eyes sings, so I melt =) Grayson is a very high soprano, so that might grate on your ears for a minute. I think you will like it.


Good News--starring Peter Lawford and June Allyson--This is fast becoming one of my top favorites. I think I heard about it from Netflix and it sounded interesting. I grew to love it, though I only watched it one time. It is the story of a college girl (Allyson) who has a crush on Lawford, a star on the football team. The only thing is that Lawford likes the new girl who won't pay attention to him. So, he asks Allyson to teach him French, in the hopes of impressing the girl. That scene is just hilarious. I was semi-rolling on the floor. It really is a sweet, cute movie. I don't think there is anything you would find objectionable, but I haven't seen it in a few months. (Should add it back into our queue again =)


High Society--starring Bing Crosby, Grace Kelly, and Frank Sinatra--This is the musical remake to the 1940's The Philadelphia Story. It is very hard to say which I think is better, but this one has Frank....and the classiest actress of all time in Grace Kelly....so those are two points well in this one's favor. Kelly is about to be remarried, but her first husband (Crosby) is still in love with her. Sinatra is a reporter who comes to cover the wedding....and falls in love with Kelly. You figure out who she winds up with. I guarantee Sinatra's voice will make you melt.....maybe =)
**The only thing I can think of this that Sinatra and Kelly get VERY drunk and go for a swim. Whether it is in clothes or not (and I don't think it is) you don't really know, as you don't see it. But there is nothing you need to skip. Plus, it is the cause of everything coming to a head.**

So, have you seen any? I hope you enjoy these.....and this whole new feature!